Needs attention?

[bdaries69]

Wife gives it up once or twice a month.. 15 years and I think it's me she not interested in. She says she LOVES me but I don't feel like it.. She don't touch on me or kiss on me. I feel lonely and need some love and affection

[PrettyPriya]

15 years? You were married at 8 years old? Hmm. Something isn’t adding up here. In any event, have you talked to her about it? If so, what has been the response? Okay, so that context would be good to know to give better advice.

I would also suggest sitting down and gently talking about your needs for intimacy and see if you can find some middle ground on the matter.

A good relationship has good communication and respect. That works both ways for both spouses. If you aren’t communicating this issue to her, how is she to know it is bothering you? If that fails, you may want to suggest seeing a counselor about it and see if that helps.

Last, think back to when intimacy was fun and exciting. What were you doing then? Special surprises? Romantics gestures? Maybe planning a surprise weekend getaway? Try to think of the times when it was good and what the two of you did and see if you can find that spark again,

[dustybiker]

Hard to help when the numbers don’t add up

[Anonymous]

This post makes no sense.