Do guys see women who send them sexy videos or pictures as slutty or is it a turn off?

[Anonymous]

I was in a relationship with a guy several years ago whom I made a sex tape with. He claimed he destroyed it after he cheated and we broke up.

My next relationship with a guy he asked me to send sexy videos and pictures while he worked out of town. In this situation we really had not quite started the relationship but had been talking for a few and I at the time was turned on and did it. This relationship ultimately failed as he cheated as well and turned out to be very narcissistic.

So, I wonder did sending these sexy videos and pictures turn these guys off? Were my actions the cause of their being unfaithful?

FYI these choices I made were when I was younger. I think and act a lot different now.

[VikingWarLord]

It all comes back to LOOKS for dudes.

I've banged 500+, done P0RN and dated a ton more so I speak from experiences.

If I think she's below average or even just slightly above average (like a 5.5 to 7) I still have propensity to cheat if I know I can snag hotter. We all have types and we only know our types by dating a lot. I realized that I would cheat on every ex girlfriend who had small tits. Even if the rest of her body looked decent and her face was slightly above average. I could always snag hotter with bigger tits. No way I'd stick around for ONLY one of the itty bitty titty committee when I can always get hotter and bigger tits.

I'd have to see pics of you from back then to know for sure. Send me a few and I'll be BRUTALLY FUUCKIN HONEST if that's what it was.

[Shlikee]

I think if you jump into sexual photos early on it becomes like a one night stand type of thing, where its not viewed seriously. You gotta start non sexual in the start for longer relationships. Anyway he seemed like a dick so stuff him and find a better one

[JessJJ]

I've never spoken with a guy without sending him pictures and videos. Its part of dating and hooking up.

[DavidRaul]

No, there's nothing wrong with you. They are just stupid incompetent immature men who are just looking for a fling. I think you shouldn't send them nudes or explicit videos cause they can turn up on the internet one day. I don't they deserve your respect

[Snedger____]

Whatever, send nudes only without face. Cannot trust anyone or any apps.

[Anonymous]

I am bisexual. It’s a turn on. Especially if she’s my girl.

[Wise4myage]

Its a huge turn on for me.