I've let my SO get ENTIRELY too comfortable w disrespecting me, I’ve been betrayed and played like a fool numerous times. I need the ultimate revenge?

[Lovechelsyrae]

I DO NOT want to just go “no contact” to let him see my life getting better without him. Nothing ever goes wrong in his life, it’s not that I’m wishing bad upon him it’s just I feel like I’ve turned the cheek one too many times. I’ve let him get ENTIRELY too comfortable disrespecting me.. I’m feeling stuck because I have nobody who I can turn to so they can help me get on my feet without having to depend on my partner… the audacity of this man is beyond ridiculous. I want actual revenge help me !!!

[DEXTER_LIVES]

People like that aren't worth your time.

My ex-wife is a narcissist with zero conscience so I know how you feel. Sometimes you just have to take the loss and learn to stay away from people like that. In my situation she made enemies all over the place so people were slashing her tires, and she will always have drama because she's a shitty person.

i know you don't want to cut contact with him, but that's really the only way that you'll heal and find somebody better.

[JamesDiaz11]

Hmm start spending his money secretly, sell his things when he's not around, and start subtly destroying his reputation. Don't be too explicit, and never admit it.

If his parents are together you could have sex with his dad and ruin their marriage?

[Lovechelsyrae]

Omg 🤣 great ideas. Awesome 👏

[LazerBean]

Oraybw just dump him and turn your brain on when you're trying to decide who to date, like a responsible and mentally sound adult.

[POSSY_HUNTER]

the solution is very simple , just dump him , cut him out of your life forever

then , u focus on your self , improve your self , so u dont always need to depend to other people , if you dont change , there are always other people who want to take advantage of your weakness

[Anonymous]

Tie him up in bed as if you're about to have sex with him, then invite some other guy to have sex with right in front of him while he is chained.

[Lovechelsyrae]

But what about when we’re done having sex right in front of him… lol then what?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know. Leave him like that and not untie him?

[Iron_Man]

Talk to your friends about it make a plan

[Anonymous]

Revenge tends to backfire. Don't go there.

[Anonymous]

how is he disrespecting you?

[Lovechelsyrae]

-Lying 🤥
-Gets caught in a lie, then gets entirely too physical and defensive I ended up with a broke nose, two black eyes , some of the ugliest bruises I’ve ever seen.
-cheating countless times, even scooping to as low as having sex with his cousins wife.
- he dosent force me to stay home but it’s been almost TWO whole months that I’ve not gotten out of the house, he dosent invite me to go ANYWHERE, not even a walk to the mailbox. If I preoccupy my mind by painting which I enjoy.. he turns the situation around on me to say I care more about painting than I do him, mean while I’m looking at him with a black eye and he just caught cheating the day before.. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢 I could go on and on.

[Opinion Owner]

jesus i'm sorry you're going through that. why not leave him