If a woman told you she was a lesbian, would you find yourself wishing you were a lesbian so that you could potentially be with her?

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I find myself doing that sometimes. For some reason, even though I don't start having kissing/sex fantasies about her after this revelation, I nevertheless do the jealousy thing very well when she talks with other women. Why does this happen?

pailentd · Accepted Answer

Look, if you aren't apposed to trying to be with a woman, then tell her you are curious. My first time with a woman was because I literally was curious and asked a lesbian friend of mine questions. She was attracted to me and said it would be easier to show me... the rest is history. She will either be open to showing you the ropes or against it. Go for it! We only live once.

Skydiver_nottrue · Accepted Answer

So I think this is called attractione to a person or a thing it can happen or you started liking girls from the moment you saw her. I would say you are probably attracted to her

DaveJord · Answer

Nope, because I do not need to be a lesbian to potentially be with a lesbian... and even if I was a lesbian my chance with her would probably be just as unlikely.

I mean I would really have loved to be with Marlyn Monroe, but I would not want to go back to 1955 to just have a chance to be with her, because I doubt, just being back in 1955 would increase my chances much.

So, in this hypothetical you're talking about this Lesbian you mention, she would have to be one sexy as hell type of women... so becoming women probably would not increase my chances by much. I mean I guess it would put it more into the realm of possibility, but honestly I have just as good of a chance of making her reconsider of sexuality and become Bi.

Guy13 · Answer

Not a chance as I am not that delusional whether it be a gay man or lesbian

AviatorTom · Answer

That might happen in a dream but not in real life.

Makeushiver · Answer

I think it's always fascinating to imagine how a lover is feeling in situations you've been in or been around enough to have a pretty good idea. It's impossible to ever really know and I've often thought of what a lover feels like from they type of partner I'm currently or have been most recently really feels. Most women's sexual arousal system is different and I'd love to know what the feels like. My only concern is that the level of complaints I've heard about seems either uninformed or uninterested- I'm sure it's not all or even a majority either be unaware or not care about a woman's arousal. I'm afraid a string of multiple orgasms would make me envious based on some of the reactions I've been a party to. Women seem to be designed for pleasure more than men. I mean c'mon. having a dozen orgasms at at a time is kind of like bragging. Add to that the fact that women have the only organ on any human body that has no purpose bit pleasure. It is the only purpose found for the clit and I think it gives it a certain nobility beyong simply being "the little man in the boat"

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Ell oh ell! No. However, it’s human nature to wish to be so desirable that another person would change their own nature to be with us. This is at the heart of otherwise intelligent people subjecting themselves to the foreseeable disappointments of dating “bad boys” and “bad girls”. In this way, i have definitely fantasized about my lesbian friends coming on to me, more than once. Ell oh ell!

Levin · Answer

To be honest, being a lesbian sounds awesome.

Lots of silky pussy licking.

Without having to go to war, lots of free shit, and not having to sink to my watery grave on the titanic.

I could do like 50 body weight squats at the gym, and still look good. Now I pretty much kill myself in the gym and look skinny as fuck still.

Bring on the lesbianism!

Anonymous · Answer

I tried being a lesbian, I thought I was because I had no sexual attraction to men. Turns out I am asexual. To be honest women are a lot more work than men.

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

Yeah I remember at one point thinking oh, that guy's gay huh? Well if I was too, then we could fuck each other. But I like girls so oh well. And then never thinking about it again. Tbh that should have been a clue i wasn't totally straight lol

sage2021 · Answer

Nope! No lesbians for me. I like riding the baloney pony! 🙂

DarkWinterNights · Answer

No, I actually don’t find most lesbians attractive at all. Their mannerisms and the way they talk and carry themselves is usually a turnoff for me.
I’ve been friends with a few in the past and that kind of connection just isn’t there. It’s more like being friends with another guy.

cth96190 · Answer

It may appear to be strange, but I usually get along with lesbians fairly well.
They have no sexual interest in me and I have no sexual interest in them (MGTOW monk for 22 years).
Because sexual tension is off the table, we can focus on the task.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

No but, I certainly wouldn't mind it. I've always felt like I've got a woman spirit trapped in my body but I don't know it because she's a lesbian. I've always felt safer on a girls bike, for instance! Does it make sense to you that the one with the balls gets the one with the bar?

Staximus · Answer

When I grow out my beard a lot of lesbians hit on me when they get drunk. I don't understand it. It's usually the ones that are trying not to look like girls. My brother says it's because I still make make them feel like a woman when they stand next to me.

Sailormoon95 · Answer

Nope. Actually, so many lesbians and trannies would come up to me because apparently I'm a part of the lgbtq community which by the way according to psychologists, I'm not.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I just started telling my lesbian friend how much I jerk off about her. She sort of pissed me off though and kept stealing the chicks I wanted to take to the bone zone. Worse than a cock blocking bro.

Lliam · Answer

No, I never had the thought of changing into a lesbian. But I could see myself having sex with her if she was really attractive. And I'd be more than happy to give her lesbian-style sex with sensual foreplay, pussy eating, and no fucking.

MCheetah · Answer

No. Queer women are almost as huge of a turn-off to me as men/transwomen.  Why did you post this question just to talk about you being queer? I don't get that.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Nope. I am 100% straight and if I had to change myself just to match what she likes, it won't be worth it. She prefers chicks and I would move on and find someone else.

Hooke22 · Answer

If its any comfort I keep falling in love with lesbians before knowing that they are so inclined. I find them incredibly alluring and often very and ultra feminine. I would change into a girl by magic if only to make love to her but I would lose the assailing sword in the process and maybe the maleness that loves these special girls as well.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I am bisexual and welcome spending time with any woman.

Sixgunsound · Answer

Not really, no. Aside from being physically impossible I think my wife and kids would have significant problems with me getting into a new relationship.

Faith18letsgo · Answer

You might be bi. I’m gay, I sometimes wish I was bi so I could be with straight dudes I’m fond of. I’d ask her out, what’s the harm?

Anonymous · Answer

Depends if she’s cute or not. Porn has duped me the way Disney movies dupe girls. I always thought lesbians were hot as fuck chicks scissoring one another when in reality it's usually one pretty one and one who looks like a dude.

Berethor · Answer

It shows that you not truly straight, as a true straight man I never want to be a queer.

Anonymous · Answer

Umm... no, if a guy told you he was a garbage man, would you find yourself wishing you were a garbage man?

BJP21 · Answer

To me, she has more available option, which spans out more competition for you, it can turn into a bit of insecurity if there is disruption in the relationship.

Tracker1958 · Answer

No, I tell her to get more women to be lesbian so men won't have to support them or deal with them. Lesbian have a 70 percent domestic abuse rate in the lesbian community. Funny as hell.

Damian69 · Answer

Yeah, that once happened. I wished either I was a girl or she was straight but eventually moved on. I'm just glad she never found out about that

Mansearching · Answer

No. If she is then she is will leave her alone. But if she wanted to try a guy then why not. Only if I was single.

brezzybaby · Answer

No no no ; fuck that. I mean there are maybe a hand full of WOMEN I Would actually would just love to look at. And touch and lick and.. oh boy

exitseven · Answer

No, maybe I would have the fantasy that I turned her to the other side.

helva · Answer

If already attracted to her, maybe we could have close contact.

worldscolide · Answer

No. She would simply be off the table as a potential romantic partner.

Luopio27 · Answer

Im not gona get myself a fake face, boobs and a removal of the dick for a hole to be drilled in place. No woman is worth it to me.

Date_a_Snob · Answer

I go to bed and wake up in the morning wishing I was a woman

Jmcswagg · Answer

I am bi, so if I was attracted to her then yes

Manuel2 · Answer

I now many women who are lesbians and some women who live with gay men. I like watching the show before they let me join. Or do a sex act over them

Anonymous · Answer

... so who's gonna tell OP she's lesbian if she thinks like this already? lol

Summeroflove · Answer

Nahhh I would move on

justboredtbh · Answer

Well if I'm straight then I don't think so I will be thinking to be lesbian to be with her

SpokenTruth · Answer

No not in the slightest bit would I be. It would be the opposite.

Iron_Man · Answer

It’s just probably a little bit of bicuriosity for you but as long as you don’t do anything

Guardian45 · Answer

I find myself wishing I was a lesbian so that I could potentially be with you.

Anonymous · Answer

I often wish I were a woman, but only if I could be a beautiful woman. I think I'd be bisexual if I were.

TallAnon · Answer

No, not at all, if she's hot, I would want to fuck her regardless.

AngryCarl · Answer

No, I'm not attracted to lesbians. Too masculine.

7offman · Answer

I’m a guy and I’m totally into women, so yea I can be a lesbian

Lesiban895 · Answer

You are probably bisexual. 60% to 80% of women are somewhat bisexual, so that's not really a surprise.

jwbjimmy23 · Answer

Be honest you want her but scared of what other people think

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I would wish I were female abd a lesbian

JLEasy · Answer

When I find out a woman is a thespian, I suddenly wish my improv skills were better.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, very much so I actually always dream to become a woman and a lesbian, lesbian love is just art

Anonymous · Answer

No issues finding that here I think 95 percent of women on gag are bi.

EmmaMary · Answer

No, absolutely not.

Finchie40 · Answer

LOL no , I just wish she liked cock

NathanDavis · Answer

I can't say I've done that before... lol

fonduegirl · Answer

That's so weird, Sis

Purpul · Answer

[NO. She’s entitled to her happiness.]

collie22 · Answer

Sounds like she's interested

Jennz6 · Answer

Yes, we should get together

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