Is it normal to have this gut renching sickness?

[Beccaasaar]

When your in a relationship/just talking/or very in depth with a person and you talk to someone else or hang out with someone else that isn't them and u have this gut renching commitment that you know it isn't right/ they are not them and you get emotional/ physical sick is that normal? What does it really mean?

[AMS700CX4u2]

Your gut is where serotonin is produced trust your gut. speaking in evolutionary terms we had a gut before we had a brain.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's not normal but it's a very good thing just means your loyal

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[Guy13]

If I am understanding the Womanese correctly, you have your panties in a wad over a guy and you are so bonded already…

That when talking to other guy the Guy is the one on your mind. The whole time…whether with the girlfriends or other interested guy all you see is the Guy 👀 and hear his voice.

I hope I got this right and if so, then both you’re Physiological and Psychological condition can be diagnosed as Puppy 🐶 Love.

[Beccaasaar]

Yes and no it's more of a concept of u have this guy that ur fully committed and he has your attention all the time and just say your friend likes u and put this effort into liking u and starts doing this effort of holding your hand or giving u hugs but u have this feeling like no this isn't right bc u want that from the guy your committed to, not the person infront of u makes sense so its kinda like what u said ot maybe it is spot on

[Finchie40]

It means you are loyal to your partner , and you think to yourself that if my partner was here seeing this, he wouldn’t be to happy about it , so out of respect for your relationship you put a wall up to that opposite sex person , you don’t have to be rude but you pretty much make it clear that you are off limits so don’ t try to pursue me anymore, My thing is , I am not going to commit to a girl in a relationship to be single , I didn’t give my heart to her so I can go run around and hook up with other girls ‘I gave my heart to her hoping she does the same for me , Realizing, it’s her and I Vs the world , , if you can’t resist temptation for your partner then you honestly shouldn’t be in a committed relationship with that person , you are only lying to yourself that you actually love and care about them , so if you can go out and hook up with other people while you are in a committed relationship , makes you a selfish person , Whether you are arguing and having disagreements with your partner, you fix it before thinking someone else is going to save you , because No one is going to save you , but your partner will, if you show them the same love and respect you want to receive in return understand a person that loves you isn’t going to need space from you for a long periods of time , if they need space from you for a long period of time , then they are more than likely up to no good and trying to play a victim Cheating is a selfish act period , When someone can cheat on someone , that gave them their heart , they are the biggest pieces of shit on this planet , If you are that unhappy in a relationship with someone then you end it with them, not jump in bed with someone else thinking they are going to save you , You are only thinking of yourself when you choose that path of cheating , making you a selfish person, that only cares about themselves, you will never experience true love if you can’t resist temptation and remove selfishness for your partner , Most people just assume the worst case scenarios in their heads when things aren’t going good in their current relationship, they start to think stupid shit , like my partner doesn’t love me anymore , or my partner must be up to no good because they aren’t being close to me as much anymore etc.. instead of focusing on all the negativity you are feeling out of your relationship and assuming your partner is up to no good , talk to them and find out what is going on , Why are you treating me this way , why am I feeling distance from you? Why don’t you kiss or hold me anymore? My gut is telling me something is off on us and I can’t point my finger on it , is everything ok between us? If your partner can’t give you a honest reason as to why they are treating You that way then you need to start focusing on yourself , still treat them the way you want to be treated , while standing your ground to them and make it clear to them that you love them and that you are in this relationship for the long haul , so f you are not then you need to let me go, because I am not Your punching bag and I will not be your punching bag for a long time , if they choose to walk away, let them go , we can’t force someone to love us , but we Can choose To love them , but if they choose to walk away , realize in yourself that you did all you could do to save that relationship , now if you run out and screw someone else , that makes you just as much of a piece of shit as they are , but if you stood by their side the whole time and they still left you , that is their loss , A cheater will never experience true love because they are a selfish person that only cares about themselves , Most cheaters will regret their actions and will try to come back to you but that’s when you say Nope , you had your chance and you blew it , Good luck to you , I deserve someone that wants I stand by my side No one said relationships were easy but they also don’t have to be hard , Love someone the way you want to be loved that’s all we can do , if they are bored and unfulfilled by you then let them go , Because I am not going to stay committed to a girl that doesn’t want to be under the sheets with me , she can go back to the streets where she belongs

[Beccaasaar]

Thank you :)

[Finchie40]

I am frustrated on love
Myself , but for whatever reason I still keep hoping that someone finally understands how to remove selfishness for each other , cuz I am sorry , selfishness is why relationships do not last and most people
Don’t grasp this concept because most people want their cake and want to eat it to and that’s where
They go wrong , they don’t think before they react they only react on what is best for them and not their partner , and that’s where fire enters a
Relationship We all have selfishness in us , we all make our own choices in life , but when you commit to someone and give them your heart you are
Expecting the same in return , understand you are no longer single all your decisions should include your partner whether you agree with them or not , and that’s where people go wrong
Because they only think of themselves

[loveslongnails]

What's wrenching your gut - the fact that your current boyfriend doesn't give you what you want, or the fact that you'd rather have it from the other guy?

[Beccaasaar]

No u see your boyfriend or who ever your connected to in a different person that u have no interest in

[loveslongnails]

That makes no sense to me.

[Beccaasaar]

You have emotional connection to this woman and u go out one night this other woman comes up to u and starts flirting with you or grabbing your hand and u have this pit in your stomach to not let her touch u bc you emotionally connected to the other woman

[loveslongnails]

So your guy had a bad feeling in his gut because he's with you and some other girl was touching him. Is his feeling "normal"? No, I don't think "gut wrenching" describes what most guys would think or feel in that situation.

[Mansearching]

Subconscious talking to you.

[Nuthouse]

Yeah it happens