For example if you feel like you are talking to a wall when you talk with your boyfriend/ girlfriend because he/she only listens you but doesn't make too much comment or elaborates the topic and share some points about her/himself
with guys that is not all that uncommon.
Mant males are simply not raised to be really talkative.
some are better at it than others.
We are all pretty much a product of our environment so if you grew up where your father did not talk all that much, or worked out of town a lot, you simply see that as normal behavior.
It can be the same way when guys are together.
Rarely will the discuss thier feelings because the other guys will look at them funny.
Usually it is about sports, cars, or motorcycles.
In rural areas you can include tractors.
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Do thing that you were doing in the beginning of the relationship that were fun. Spring is close so get out more during the day together and conversation will happen on its own.
Thank them for being a good listener, and remind them that you enjoy listening to their thoughts and commentary😍.
your not alone in this, there are many that don't know how to talk
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I am that kind of person who doesn't talk much but we do listen to you all, we just don't want to give a wrong suggestion.
So sometimes we feel it's better to lend you an ear so that you can vent rather than giving suggestions that don't help you at all.Most of the time convo comes naturally in relationships. You may not be that compatible or he’s not into it. Happened to me once and we realized we didn’t have much in common, and we broke it off
Nothing to recommend. If one of the partners is more talkative then it would keep things interesting.
New boyfriend/girlfriend. Very unlikely that will change unless we're talking about teenagers.
Is this just how the person is, or do they open up with other people? If they open up with others, for some reason they feel constrained around you.
ask him what he thinks about what you said
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