There is a girl who is a very very good friend of mine and I developed a crushon her. what should I do?

[Anonymous]

We are very close friends and I don't want to ruin it but i developed a big crush on her.

[Anonymous]

Developing feelings for a close friend can be a tricky situation, but the good news is that you can navigate it with care and honesty. Here are a few things you can consider:

1. Assess your feelings: Take some time to reflect on your feelings and consider whether they are fleeting or if they have been persistent over time. This can help you clarify what you want and how you feel about your friend.

2. Consider the potential risks: It's important to be aware that expressing your feelings to your friend could potentially change the dynamic of your friendship. This doesn't necessarily mean that it's not worth pursuing, but it's important to be aware of the potential outcomes.

3. Communicate honestly: If you decide that you want to express your feelings to your friend, it's important to do so honestly and respectfully. Be clear about your intentions and make sure to listen to your friend's perspective as well.

4. Respect her decision: Remember that your friend has the right to decide how she feels and what she wants, and it's important to respect her decision even if it's not what you were hoping for.

Ultimately, the decision of what to do is up to you, but approaching the situation with honesty, respect, and empathy can help to minimize the potential risks and maintain the friendship regardless of the outcome.

[Avicenna]

talk to other girls and get a girlfriend so you can preserve your friendship with this girl. If you have a good female friend, don't mess that up. Especially at your age, it's easier to get a girlfriend than a really good female friend.

[mobiusforniner]

Never pass the opportunity to tell someone how you feel.

I lost frienships with women because I told them how I felt. Its ironic because women want us to tell them what we feel but only if what we feel aligns with what they want. Otherwise theyd rather you say nothing.

[Nikki1989]

Tell her how you feel.

[Iron_Man]

Be a friend your to young right now