Im the safe and healthy option?

[Anonymous]

Should I be concerned that my new girlfriend said she was attracted to the idea that I could give her a healthy or safe relationship?

[Anonymous]

You should dump her ass. She's telling you that she's had hotter guys that turned her on, but she's settling for you because you're like bubble wrap or Tupperware, safe, no attraction, no passion, no wild sex, just safe as a dependable fall back guy.

[Anonymous]

I don't know what's the issue with the guys that answered, they're wrong.

For women it may be hard to find a man that makes us feel safe, comfortable, someone to have a healthy relationship with. She sees you as that, you're very valuable, what she told you is great and means a lot because it means she feels she found a very good man that's worth it.

[Smashingdoozy]

No, that is an amazing compliment on your character!

[jshm2]

No. But you should be concerned that she not turn into an entitled partner or gold digger.