Is it even true love if you have never experienced any trials?

[Anonymous]

I don’t mean cheating or something really major.

But I mean if someone’s never experienced a hard time. Maybe financially, maybe mentally, or just life circumstances, disagreements, etc.

Is it true love if you have not been tested? Many times the most in love people have been through a lot together and have always made it work and stayed together and once you do that. You can become closer then ever before

[Anonymous]

Yeah I went through something that really tested my relationship with my boyfriend and I think it's made our relationship stronger than ever. I think it's made us closer. So I agree if you haven't been through any hardships to test the relationship, then you can't really say it's true love because that's how you really know if that person is truly for you once you've been tested.

[Asker]

Thats amazing hope you’re both doing well

[Asker]

I like reading a good story like that sometimes

[Sunssong]

There doesn't have to be any trials. You're doing it to yourselves. I created a whole philosophy to avoid such things and I promise you trials dont exist, they are created by the very people who dont want them because they dont know what they are doing.
Do you guys even ask yourself why you think the way you think? You don't have to be a perfect person to be great.

[Finchie40]

Yes , if 2 people can stand by each other’s side through any obstacles that come their way that is true love , no relationship is perfect , but having a partner that stands by you through the good times and bad times is priceless

[shades777]

Like your both homeless and stay together and figure it out vs her finding another guy to freeload, yea sure

[Asker]

Well. Most people aren’t homeless. But absolutely getting through hard times means you love one another

[Asker]

Well. Good women don’t do that kind of stuff. Only gold diggers who can’t find a rich man. So they use a man whose just tying to make ends meet and aren’t honest about what they want.

I mean…. Yeah nobody wants them at least nobody decent wants them when they’re honest but I have more respect for a gold digger whose honest verses one whose not. Doesn’t mean I would be with her. But I have more respect.

I have more respect for a woman whose just open about being a whore and a slut then one who tries to appear as a good girl but hides her sexual life

[shades777]

we can both agree bwing homeless constitutes as a hard time

[ChillaxingLove]

You are correct. Your love is just feelings until your still loving even when it doesn’t feel good

[Sunssong]

says who?

[ChillaxingLove]

@Sunssong emotions are fickle. One day you feel like this and then next you feel like that. Emotions are not proof you’re in love. Actions are proof that you love. For all you know you could just be sexually driven and not even know because sexual attraction feels like love to, matter of fact the call it making love, do they not?

[clampfan101]

It can start without any prior trials, but trials will be unavoidable in the future of any relationship.

[Sunssong]

Says who?

[clampfan101]

@Sunssong People who believe in love at first sight. (Experiencing what may become true love before there’s time for eventual trials to happen.)

[Fuentes]

I don't wanna deal with a female Rollercoaster.

[Asker]

Well. There’s some women who are that way. Not all. But no relationship is perfect you know. Neither are YOU… I’m sure there is something about you that there is a woman that will put up with because she loves you enough

[Fuentes]

Nah I ain't wifing nothing that's the difference so there ain't nothing.

[jimmy2]

They will come