Who should I be more mad at?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend dumped me a few months ago because he couldn't get along with my sister. After months of not knowing why we broke up he finally told me. My sister and my boyfriend had a hard time getting along with each other. They were cool one minute then drama would occur the next. When my boyfriend and her wouldn't be on good terms, she attempted to turn me against him. It never happened and I didn't blame him for anything. When things got worse between them, my boyfriend ghosted me including her. Later to let me know I did nothing wrong to cause it and that it was my sister fault. He had the option to not have anything to do with her but for whatever reason he felt the need to keep in contact with her.

Sister

Boyfriend

[SakuraBlossoms87]

ROFL.

He and your sister "couldn't get along" and yet he ghosts YOU and keeps in contact with your sister. In this situation 2 + 2 = 45 for the amount of sense / logics it contains.

Reality is is your sister did NOT like him because he is/was likely a good for nothing cheat trying to hook up with your sister and your sister wasn't interested when he was with you. Now he's dumped you, doesn't want to do anything with you & keeping in contact with your sister for a potential chance of going out with her in the future.

[Spongebobssocks]

Your sister shouldn't have anything to do with your boyfriend. And he shouldn't feel that need either.

[Spongebobssocks]

Thank you for MHO!

[ohsheeT]

I think in time when you really pay attention to what's going on it's going to be a whole different scenario

He truly did not like her he would not want to keep in contact with her whatsoever he stops contacting you that starts contacting her there's a little bit more going on here I think I hope I'm wrong but I really don't think so

[lightbulb27]

both, your sister is doing damage to you... or preventing you from dating a troublemaker, one of those.

the boyfriends issue is he didn't communicate with you.

[SakuraBlossoms87]

ROFL. Sister isn't doing any damage whatsoever, learn to read. The "boyfriend" ghosts the girl & keeps in contact with the sister. Meaning he was trying to cheat with the sister & sister didn't want the douchebag anywhere near her.

[lightbulb27]

@SakuraBlossoms87 you may be right.

[justsomeaverageguy]

You guys brokeup right so why not talk you alone talk this out with your sister. Ask her why she didn't get along with him. That's the solution you have to go with, see the thing is the blame game won't result in things ending up rightfully it will only go worse. So why not talk it out with your sis why he stood out to her as no go. At least you will be at ease knowing the both sides story and making your own judgement later.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Sisters are forever. Loser boyfriends come and go.

[the_kisses_of_sun]

Their issues could have simply been resolved by them never contacting again with each other. He was an idiot for letting it affect your relationship. I'd be more mad at him. Also, I'd tell my sister to back off and not ruin my relationship.

[SakuraBlossoms87]

ROFL. Sister isn't doing any damage whatsoever, learn to read. The "boyfriend" ghosts the girl & keeps in contact with the sister. Meaning he was trying to cheat with the sister & sister didn't want the douchebag anywhere near her.

[whistlingwh0res]

Your boy friend is a playboy and your sister is a demon

[Wraith_Cemetery]

Both are to blame here.

[Kiss_Me]

Ack... Use proper Grammar, please.

[WhitneySnow]

It sounds like it’s both their fault

[In_Trance]

yourself