If a man who is married seems a little too excited about speaking to another woman while next to his wife would you think he's attracted to her?

[Anonymous]

Everytime he sees her he seems happy and excited to be talking to her, even though I'm right there. Would you feel offended? I'm not jealous, yes she's pretty, but I can't dislike her since she seems like a nice person. But I do feel hurt by my husband. I feel like he's physically attracted to her. We've been together 8 years. We have already talked about it, he denied it but i feel he lied as he seemed nervous and looked guilty, but I still feel sad.

Anyone in a similar situation, our kids go to the same school so well see her inevitably.

[lovedcursed]

I have been in the same situation, but the truth is he could be just attracted to her in a friendly way, i mean likes her as a person, when i asked my hus and the same question, he said she is a nice girl and he likes her as he would like any other human. Think it sometimes happens with you yourself, sometimes we meet good looking people and because we are married we end up liking them in person and not more, yeah we know they are attractive but because we are married we switch our feelings to just liking them as humans.. it is probably like that

[Reichmann75]

How many times will we need to repeat it? CHEATING IS NORMAL FOR A GUY.

This is even more than normal, it HEALTHY for relationships. Guys are conquerer who always get tired of the same pussy. They need to see multiple women and it keeps them from being needy or things like this. Couples are always better when the man is cheating, as long as the guy is a bit discreet about it.

You should stop trying to look into his business and live your life. But he should also don't act like this in your presence.

[Asker]

The same goes for woman right. Cheating is not healthy, or normal.

[Reichmann75]

No, the same doesn't go for women. Men and women are not the same. A guy cheating is normal, a girl cheating is a slut ;)

[Anonymous]

Regardless of whether cheating is normal or not, any man with self control can control himself in all situations. That includes the one you just mentioned. Therefore the problem is not that your husband finds her attractive, it's that he isn't controlling himself. Look at what the Bible even says about mere eye contact and being married!

[Avicenna]

I'd assume that he's attracted to her

[LiamSawyer]

That's not an easy question to honestly answer the simple easy answer is to say he's attracted to her but it could be entirely different then that.

[sheikalana]

He could just be a friendly dude.

[Anonymous]

Sure there smth between them

[red-lipstick-girl]

yes this is obvious