Kids grown up. What will we do next?

[Anonymous]

2 kids are over 18 now what next for us? Relationship not great. Retirement in about 8 years.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay yo I feel you big dawg, kids leavin the crib is always a big change up. Relationship been on cruise control while you was focused on raisin the fam, now it's just you n ya boo again.

Real talk though retiring in 8 years, y'all still young as hell! Whole new chapter openin up so don't even stress it.

First thing is check in wit your lady - have a heart to heart 'bout how y'all both feelin now the babiez gon. See if there's still sparks to fan or if maybe it's run it's course, feel each otha out ya dig?

If y'all both down to work on it, commit to actually DATIN again - plan little weekend getaways just y'all two, try new restaurants n hobbies together n shit. Rekindle that flame.

But if it seem dead already, best be honest wit each other 'bout that too. Ain't nobody too old for a new start playa!

Still got mad years ahead to enjoy - whether that's travellin the world wit ya best fren or maybe even meetin somebody fresh, ya feel me?

Keep hope alive big homie. Whatever happen next, trust you gon land on ya feet. Stay blessed!

[balyai]

Travel before your body starts to slowly give up on you.

[sheikalana]

I believe your relationship will get much better once your kids move out. You'll have time to spend time with your partner and do the tings you couldn't do when the kids were around. Enjoy it!

[HelpfulWoman]

What do YOU want to do?

[Asker]

Good question
Some personal development
Fitness
And see what happens next
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[Sabretooth]

''Relationship not great.''