What sorts of women do men often like?

Question

Romantically, I mean. I know there’s a guy for every woman who exists; but what are key things many men favour?

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

Is she enjoyable to be around? The lines blur with the "romantically" part involved... because the drive for sex with her might be there to a point that overshadows how much we actually hate everything she does, says, and even thinks. A really horny thirsty dude will probably pretend to be whatever it is she wants just to get in between her legs.

If there is nothing there outside of that... it's only a matter of time. It's going to get annoying enough at some point that he'll look at her and say to himself..."She isn't worth the effort."

Now if she's enjoyable to be around... that changes a whole lot of shit. Some stupid habit of hers can be overlooked and actually cherished.

I don't really know how to put it, but it's like a job you enjoy versus a job you hate. The lover and the hater of the job will both show up because they want to get paid. Now consider if the job payment is sex.

Someone who enjoys their job will consider it their life's work... everything has led to doing this. Someone that hates their job is probably only putting up with shit and annoyed as all hell by all the bullshit. They have a wandering eye for something better.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

You specified "romantically" so I'll limit my response to that.

Smart, not naive, knows her own mind, needs and desires.
Fun, open to adventure.
Feminine mannerisms and tastes in grooming and attire.
Strong libido, loves sex, no sexual inhibitions.
Romantic, sensual, erogenous, orgasmic.
Self respect, self esteem, comfortable in her own body.
Tender, caring, nurturing.
Loyal, honest and monogamous.
Respects and adores me as much as I respect and adore her.

Dysney1023 · Accepted Answer

I’d say they like a respectful, pretty girl who is not too pretty. But most of all a connection that makes them find quirks cute and not annoying. One that gives him butterflies and can warm his cold heart. Usually opposites attract. A firey passionate man will want someone who has a side of fire to them but displays cold as ice. Same vicaversa. I think they look up to purity. They want their woman to be pure to the world but a freak with them. This is if you’re asking about a guy looking for exclusivity. Lol I have done too much research on this subject as you can see.

JosyJosy · Accepted Answer

I've had a lot of success with being straight forward with what I want and what I think. If you're also respectful and loyal to them, they'll remember. If you really care for him and support them in what they do, they'll remember. If you share their same life goals, they'll remember.
Be down to earth.

dynamicyandere · Answer

Romantically?

I can only speak for myself but for me, in no particular order, it would be:

* Loyalty. (Ride or die.)
* Intimacy.
* Trust.
* Sincerity.
* Attentiveness.
* Respect.
* Empathy.
* Compassion.
* Patience.
* Gentleness.
* Depth.
* Submission. (Willing and consensual of course. This only feels nice if it brings them happiness to express their love in this way.)

Avicenna · Answer

Ones who are fun to be around

CatVader · Answer

actually.. no
there is born more men than there are women. around 5%
men are born to die.
women are born to give life.
so there is actually a surplus of men.

2. what is a value to men looking for real deep romance?
generally. Respect, support, inspiration and loyalty low body count.
also depending on if he is looking for creating a family, - age. as in lower than the wall.
if not then it leans far more on the other values i mentioned.

just my honest 2c as a man.

FellowTraveler · Answer

A great deal of questions here reduces the question to simple answers. Alfred Kinsey showed without question that relationships are more 'alchemy' than 'chemistry'. There is a BIG difference between the two. What works one day, one week, one year, doesn't necessarily work further on, and then somehow can work years latter. People change, and as such their needs change. Since each person is unique, their needs are unique. In this respect frankly IMHO there isn't 'key things many men favor'. IF it were as simple as 'key things that many men favor'; then the defacto book would have been written long ago. Any takers on which book that would be?

Unit1 · Answer

Other men? They have a specific type, that i'd distance myself from. Me? Childfree ladies please.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

A woman who is fit both mentally and physically, squared away with her finances, has similar goals, is upfront with everything and doesn't beat around the bush, is not going to bring up stupid bullshit or unnecessary drama, loyalty, caring, supportive of the man's goals/purpose, empathetic, religious/spiritual and good with kids.

zagor · Answer

There are as many answers to that as there are guys. There are certainly common things, like physical attractiveness (definition of which can vary), pleasant personality, physical fitness, but generally different guys have different tastes.

I never cared for the girls my brother dated before he got married; coincidentally, they all had big boobs and, in my estimation, bad personalities.

Pudsmucker · Answer

I want a good honest woman that will treat me right. Will accept me for who I am and not try to change me. She has to be fantastic in bed and sometimes initiates sex. Sometimes meeting me at the door with nothing on but maybe an apron.
It is also helpful if she's somewhat on the spiritual side to keep me inline. But no nagging.

Anonymous · Answer

A man will bang a tree in the forest if it had a vagina.

luckystore · Answer

It's essential to remember that every person is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question. Men, like women, have diverse tastes and preferences when it comes to the people they are attracted to. Building healthy and meaningful

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Most guys are going to want a woman with social competence at a similar level to his own. Most guys are going to want a woman who knows how to listen and understands how to tell stories and jokes well.

whirled_up_girl · Answer

I feel like I asked this questions already on other question but probably, looks, personality, dependability and compatibility.

Fireguy17 · Answer

For me it is personality over looks any day. I have to actually like the person I am with, go figure.

SeekerOfTruth007 · Answer

Someone with morals. Beauty is like icing on the cake or something, but morals I can't do without.

strateguy632 · Answer

a lady who chooses her response to show she heard and continued the topic

soe11 · Answer

Realistic Romantic Sexier Intelligent Exibationist Ultra liberal No religion

RingOfFire · Answer

I like a woman who LOVES romance. I mean if it drives her crazy and gives her a meltdown that is so attractive.

ohmyguy · Answer

the sort that like us bozo men we only got two mandatory requirements .. and that is 2feet and a heart beat

MJtheCoach · Answer

Weak men like anything that walks and breathes.  Experienced high value men want a hot young girl fit sweet girl to not give them dramas.

Anonymous · Answer

There is no thing because men aren't all the same. A penis doesn't do anything but make you attracted to a women's body.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Low maintenance. Fun/silly Smart Not afraid to get her hands dirty Laid back Playful

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Hard to say! It takes all types to make party 😃

Jerre · Answer

As long as she likes sex as much as I do, I like her. Perhaps not romantically, but she will make a great friends with benefits

BigDog1989 · Answer

What do you mean romantically? If we like you, we like you. It's up to YOU!

In_Trance · Answer

For every type of woman there's at least 10 guys jerking off to her

boobliker · Answer

just about any woman will do just fine but must not be too keen and be nice

Christoff92 · Answer

Sweet, honest, courteous, personal traits, down to earth.

msc545 · Answer

The kind of women without diagnosable personality disorders.

Anonymous · Answer

I personally like the goodie-two-shoes type 'a girls. It's cute. Even more so if they're delicate and need extra help.

BLP11520 · Answer

Personality humor honesty and looks and some common interests no smoking

krin_m · Answer

Someone who is free of any emotional baggage!

Wise4myage · Answer

A good sense of humor means a lot to me.

turnpost · Answer

Guys like Girls that like them.

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

No single moms

Iron_Man · Answer

A Good woman with a heart of gold

_RebelWolf_ · Answer

fun friendly understanding

shortster · Answer

I like honesty, loyalty and kindness

Rawdog1 · Answer

I love dirty slutty girls

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

NOT A BITCH IS A GOOD START

Jkgordon · Answer

Pretty

Sparkie460 · Answer

Down to earth

Sugarberry37 · Answer

skinny

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