Who suffers most of love affection... girls or boys?

[holydude999]

i suffer a lot of it. but you as a girl do you suffer much as me

girls

boy

[thegreenyogi]

It really depends on the situation. If I am really connected to a person and I don't receive affection from that person I feel it. If not it doesn't really affect me that much. Reason being I try to stay away from becoming soo attached that I depend upon a person to give me affection.

[thegreenyogi]

Thank you so much for the Superb opinion or MHO!!

[Anonymous]

From my opinion it's girls. As being a girl If I get attached to someone then there is no going back. If I know someone has a crush on me even they don't confess and try to be around me. I got used to their presence. I assume them as I want in someone. But they move on and there I don't know how to overcome this...

[Anonymous]

I'm going to say girls. Guys probably with lack of love much more than women. But guys deal with it much better than women do. And most of women's suffering is self inflicted and not really even real. Women create a lot of things in thier heads.

[Anonymous]

Actually I tend to subscribe to the notion that guys are in love, women are in business. Men are the true romantics. I've heard men die for their love and go to war to protect them. Never heard the same of women.

[WhitneySnow]

I disagree. Most girls would do anything for the person they love. Guys will to if it’s true love. But you’re right, in traditional gender roles the guy is more likely to be the protector. But that’s changing fast, especially among non-hetero couples.

[Opinion Owner]

Would you agree that women are beholden to their emotions and their love is defined by said emotions?

For guys, I'm sure there is some emotional aspect especially these days, but traditionally it was based on duty?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know where I'm going with this, if I'm going off on a tangent let me know. Hi just curious to hear your thoughts and see if I can't change your perspective

[WhitneySnow]

Yes. I agree with that. But what’s wrong with that? Love is an emotion. And you shouldn’t stay with someone because you feel a sense of duty toward them (unless of course you’re staying married because you love your kids but I’m talking about romantic love here). You should stay with them because you love them. Deeply madly passionately.

[Opinion Owner]

Well a woman is a completely different person each day on the month and her emotions thought each day go from 😃😘🙃😏🫥😔😮‍💨🥳😰😳😢🥺😌🥰 so emotions can be all over the place hehehe ✌️🫶🫒

[Opinion Owner]

Alright WhitneySnow, this is your chance.. are you going to go with 😄 or this 😒? Lol

[WhitneySnow]

Our emotions aren’t that chaotic lol. Though I admit I am kinda moody sometimes.

[XingQi]

In my experience, both. Both parties are constantly hungry for affection and validation. Nothing ever changes. Look at ancient legends and mythology- humanity has always been insecure, and hungry for purpose and validation.

[Nikki1989]

Women. Most men are clueless when it comes to that.

[shades777]

i see a lot of competition questions and there's actually no way to actually know unless you did a census on all boys and girls and even still it would be inaccurate, this is an unanswerable question

[Anonymous]

I think it's definitely girls.

[Jamie465]

Judging by my boyfriend sometimes I would say boys

[Anonymous]

I think girls suffer the most.