How many of you girls enjoy spankings in bedroom? And guys, do you feel "superior" when you are spanking your girlfriend/wife?

[Anonymous]

I have never dated anyone who ever wanted to spank me until my current boyfriend, he just casually slaps my butt sometimes and he does it so casually that it's nothing for him and it's obvious he has done it with his ex's.

I feel little bit weird mostly because it's my first time. I haven't talk to him about this because I don't want to make an unnecessary issue out of it.

I just want to know if it's common, if any girl over here gets spanked by her boyfriend/husband.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

It's less of a superior feeling and more of a feeling that she's giving herself up to me. Which depending on the context of the situation that can be flavored all different ways.

It could be a form of punishment which really to me just depends on how much of a role play you want it to be. Right? Are you punishing her because she didn't take a certain position you wanted. That's kinda a more silly, playful you're just sorta looking for an excuse to spank her because it's fun.

Maybe the girl is bratty and likes to instigate the guy. I used to talk to a girl who would act funny and agetate me some days and I finally pieced it together that she just liked the way I had sex with her when she caught me in an aggressive mood.

So I think it depends on the couple how you look at it. I think most of this stuff is just rooted in the fact we like being touched, pain and pleasure are very closely related, especially in intamacy. It's just easier for some people to feel comfortable with it if they come up with some kind of reason for it.

[Anonymous]

Yes I love light spanking and no it's not anything about "superior", not sure if she feels "inferior'

[Asker]

My bad, I shouldn't have said "superior".

[Opinion Owner]

Oh no issues, I bet it's more of an intimate action for most instead of any Dom/sub factor

[Asker]

I guess. It's just such a new thing for me it will take a little time for me to get used to it. I never thought spankings can be playful too, always thought of them as punishment.

[Opinion Owner]

Haha and yes it can mean both and I am pretty sure your man means the playful way!
The punishment ones are usually done by tying you up or using a whip or something and it's usually more harder if that makes sense
Enjoy! good luck~

[Asker]

Oh yes, punishment ones would be way more harder.

Thank you, have a nice day :)

[Opinion Owner]

Always welcome ~~
And same to you 😌

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO, Gday~

[Ironic_Method]

I slap my partners' butts all the time. My sub craves spankings, but my hand gives out before her ass does so I'll use a toy/tool of some kind.

[Ironic_Method]

Oh, and I don't feel any more or less superior - it doesn't do too much for me either way, but maybe that's because the other stuff I do makes me feel that way.

[Anonymous]

I do spank my girlfriend all the time