Would You Date Yourself?

[msc545]

Yes

No

Maybe (explain)

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Ok, if you were the opposite gender, same personality?

[AmandaYVR]

If I wasn't me, and was a totally different person, probably yes.

But being me, hell no. One of me is enough. I need a break!

[Apple1996]

Nah I'm more attracted to people that are the complete opposite of me.

[hsshannah96]

Same. They need the energy I need to follow em and have a blast with them and I’m more quiet at times
I mean I do talk a lot but I don’t possess a lot of the playful energy I want in a man

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I definitely would.

I think someone like me as the opposite gender,

with the same values as I have,

but a little better organizational and planning skills than I have, would make a perfect match with me.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

But not someone totally like me,

Then we would be just a couple of two dreamers, without the mind that’s necessary to stay down to earth.

So, I would date a little different version of myself.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@moneymagnet24 No, the reason for me being single is that, I prefer so.

[coachTanthony]

On most days I guess ha

[Jessica405]

No. Not that stroppy bitch! 🤣🤣🤣

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

No, I have too many glaring weaknesses as an imbalanced person. Doubling me up with a female version of me might amplify our mutual strengths but also our mutual weaknesses.

My wife has many opposite traits that complement me. For example, I'm a rapid thinker and decent at improvising my way out of situations. Yet I'm very bad at long-term planning and organization. My wife is the opposite. She's extremely organized and excellent at long-term planning but tends to panic when things aren't going according to plan. We fill out each other's weaknesses that way.

[WhiteBoyChill]

That sounds quite nice honestly 👍

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@WhiteBoyChill Cheers! It works out fairly well in terms of balancing.

For example, if it was all up to me to decide what we do on a vacation, I'd just completely wing it and wander around the hotel and key locations and just try to figure out what to do as we go. That can lead to some fun discoveries and hanging out more with the locals but it can also turn into a complete dud of a vacation.

If it was all up to my wife, she'd plan the entire trip meticulously from the time we wake up in the morning to the time we sleep. And that can lead to a very organized vacation but can be kind of exhausting and conventional.

So we compromise and find a middle-ground and that usually leads to a nice balance where we don't plan things to death and leave room for some spontaneity and discovery, but not so much that we risk just wandering around the place with little to do.

[tzdc21]

I absolutely would date myself (And I know you meant the opposite gender lol). I want someone who is fiercely loyal, determined, who is willing to go through thick and thin with me and is willing to build a life from nothing alongside me. Plus I want someone who can share a laugh with me, who is goofy, who is into sports, is amazingly kind, but doesn't want the spotlight and prefers to remain mellow and a homebody most of the time. That is me in a nutshell, so I would absolutely love to date myself.

[IslaTheWitch]

I prefer diversity. Why should I date a person who thinks and feels the same way as me? How can we even discuss things? It would be hella boring.

[AmandaYVR]

Agreed!

[moneymagnet24]

Oldies dreaming of dates at 46..
Fun of the day 😄

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I've thought about this a lot because as much as I don't like the answer I know it's true...

If I met the woman version of myself I'd be in love at first sight 😂

That said, there's no one much like me so the next best thing is finding someone who's stubborn like me. That way we can at least understand eachother.

[HotLentilzzz]

No. What Im attracted to has nothing to do with me. I dont want someone with the same interests, music tatse, fashion sense, hobbies etc. That would be ideal for a bestfriend but not a partner.


I want someone where we balance each other out, but where were not SO different that we can't understand each other.

[OfMiceandMen]

Oh for sure, I am quite the catch! Unfortunately, I come with a © clause even if the parts aren't exactly the same.

[XXblack88]

Dating a male virgin of myself might be asking for trouble.

[summiter]

I would that way I knew I'd get ;aid at least

[BoopBoopBeep]

Sure... i've got some pretty sweet rescue kittens

[sawno]

Assuming its a female version of myself I'd absolutely love her.

[aceleon]

no.

i know for a fact that my female version would be a one hell of a hot chick but she would be the opposite of what i want in terms of personality wise in a partner.

[ChiTown33]

I do everytime I mention my age, or the 80' and 90's.😂

[Anonymous]

No, I’m a mess! 🤣 I know my faults and what I want in a relationship, so I would have a very hard time dealing with someone that has the same faults and wants.

[NathanDavis]

I would want different... and for them to be themselves, not another me...

[Subflics]

If there was a girl version of me, yes we'd be perfect

[DarkWinterNights]

I can’t imagine dating a woman who was exactly like me. That would be a little weird, but really close would probably be nice.

[RavVid]

Like me in a female body with a feminine personality. Yes.

[EdgyBoi2002]

Yes but that would not be a healthy relationship. I like the idea of my partner having their own unique personalities rather than a copy and paste of me!

[andreasderjuengere]

Smart, humorous, creative, interesting.
I'd get along with myself very well :D

[CozyCoffin]

I don't think an opposite gender me would be good for me.

[grega239]

Maybe but most likely not.

wouldn't it be boring? I know myself so there woupd never be a surprise or something like that

[Anonymous]

I think this 3 min Seinfeld clip answers the question.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/NVDT1ARABvE

[litty736]

I don't understand why people would say no to themselves

[HotLentilzzz]

Because im not romantically or sexually attracted to myself.

[litty736]

If we love someone, we're inclined to date them, and if we love ourselves, we might want to date ourselves too.

[RebelinSteel]

Fuck no, I actually have taste.

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, I'm straight.

[msc545]

Ok, if you were the opposite gender, same personality?

[Ms_Facesitter]

Yes of course we'd make a great team! :)

[laly520]

I would
definitely

[BlissfullyCurSed]

No, but I would hook up with me.🍌🍌🍌

[elizamichale1]

Yup absolutely

[DizzyDesii]

Heck yea. I love me 🤣

[On_cloud_wine]

Def not. I’m too crazy.

[On_cloud_wine]

Would you date yourself? Hmmm?

[exitseven]

Yes, if I was a woman.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, I would do so.

[Jmmmfi4]

DEFINITELY NOT

[MemeSupreme]

FUCK no

[KittygosMeoWW]

Yes I’m dating myself rn

[RelentlessWitch]

I would

[stark04]

Yes I'm the best ❤️

[ab2shifty]

I’m straight 💀

[KrakenAttackin]

Oh hell no.

[Zoi99]

No I’m to demanding.

[Anonymous]

I do 😊

[PrettyCrumblBb]

I'm straight.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Nope

[Awomanof]

Its complicated