What’s a betrayal that you find worst than cheating?

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zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

When you're standing in line at the grocery store and the person behind you just starts stabbing you repeatedly with a shank.
I mean, c'mon man, that's not cool. It's against the social code. A total betrayal of your fellow human's trust and the implicit unspoken agreement we have not to attack each other out of nowhere.

I'd 100% way rather be cheated on than shanked by a stranger while in line waiting for my turn. I mean, I get that you're frustrated or whatever, but that's just not fair.

That's just off the top of my head. Way worse things than someone you have sex with having sex with someone else outside of your sexual monogamy contract.

Or are you talking about cheating at Monopoly? Cos' someone getting shanked for sure. Stealing from the bank, what?

What’s a betrayal that you find worst than cheating?

kuzgunsteele · Accepted Answer

Betrayal is an extremely painful experience for many people, and it is different for everyone. However, speaking from a personal perspective, a violation of trust is worse than betrayal in a relationship built with love and commitment. Trust is the cornerstone of relationships, and losing someone's trust is a deep wound. Being cheated on is not just an act, it is also an emotional trauma. However, broken trust and continued betrayal can lead to the complete destruction of the fundamental bond in the relationship. So, the betrayal as well as the breach of trust would have been a pretty severe trauma for me.

Mariena_Anne92 · Accepted Answer

My ex fiance didn’t cheat. But he spread rumours about me behind my back, he tend to makes my friends, family believe that im a bad person and he’s a good one, that im better after im with him and only he can fixed me. He was abusive, not physical but mentally. Slowly drawn my family and friends away from me. I become his and his only, and he start playing with my head that I have no value, if he didn’t take me no one else will. I didn’t realised till I asked one of my friend why she stop talking and she told me everything my ex fiance tells her. Break my heart. Yeah this is for me worst than cheating. I can’t forgive me and I walk away.

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

if he emotionally or physically hurts others or me or actively creates situations that can have such an effect...

Paris13 · Answer

Being Taken for Granted and Advantage of. xxoo

Anonymous · Answer

you mean like finishing the last of the ice cream or dinosaur chicken nuggets, and then putting the empty container back in the freezer for someone to find later when they're absolutely craving it--only to have their heart broken when they find out it's empty? :'(

JayBones · Answer

I worked as a Narc for maybe a month. I was 20 amd they sent me undercover in a high-school to bust kids for drugs and shit. Hung out with the coolest kids for a few weeks. They wanted me to bust these kids. For what? Having fun? They literally weren't hurting anyone. Didn't do my job for like a month and then they fired me. I told all my friends what to look for in a narc. I wish i just quit but I needed the money and I never gave them shit. Narcs and undercover cops are barely a cunt hair above pedophile on the scumbag list.

Agape93 · Answer

Sending you to a bad fate. I'd rather have my partner fuck someone outside the rules, than have my partner set me up to be raped while they get paid.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Being cheated on is lightweight compared to a million other things like physical abuse, rape and so on.

Anonymous · Answer

Since I'm not particularly hung up on monogamy, for me the worst thing is thinking the worst about me, jumping straight to the shittiest conclusion without even trying to hear my version of events.

Vesuvius87 · Answer

Getting scammed and you never get your money back Them giving hints of wanting your parents dead

NathanDavis · Answer

being cheated on with Aaron Rodgers...

spartan55 · Answer

I'd say airing our business (relationship) to her bitchy friends.

KrisKris81 · Answer

Not worse, but close to, or on the same level - theft of intellectual property. The adamacy and narcissism of some of people is mind blowing - especially when the thief is someone you know.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

I suppose certain financial moves by your partner to steal your money could be worse...  Anything involving harming children or neglect of children is worse too

Sameone · Answer

War: killing people and kids Women who have uterus removal operations / for money or for something else Transgender/ post op  And the worst one is cheating

sage2021 · Answer

Betrayal of trust. Once trust us broken you can never make it like it originally was.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

Not sure if worse, but if just as bad: Fake friends.

MushyKiwi · Answer

A man saying that he just doesn't love you anymore, giving up on you like they didn't have feelings to begin with

Cheapskate · Answer

Using a woman to get to [insert Bond villain]

JHAYES317 · Answer

Making false allegations about you publicly where other people try to cancel you or get you in legal trouble as a result

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

They didn't do a sti std test or they faked it, OR they didn't take the pill and got pregs hahaha

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

People can recover from anything except death. So murdering someone is worse than all..

Sevenpointfive · Answer

maybe the 2nd time they cheat?

DizzyDesii · Answer

Killing or raping

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

Nothing is worse than cheating in a relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

BEING SEXUALLY HARASSED IN YOUR SLEEP BY YOUR FAMILY MEMBER

SolitarySolace · Answer

Being falsely accused

SeekerOfTruth007 · Answer

Abortion maybe?

laly520 · Answer

pretending to love someone

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Telling me you hate my cooking

bobalife · Answer

Any type of lies and dishonesty.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Being murdered by a friend.

Lunatic1 · Answer

Manipulation through lying

Tomisworthless · Answer

Being stabbed like Caesar

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Child trafficking

Anonymous · Answer

Getting an abortion without telling the father.

Lovehaschange · Answer

Attempted murder over money

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

Lying

jahaims · Answer

There isn't one

Simslover92 · Answer

Hitting me

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