What are some of your deal breakers in a relationship?

[worldscolide]

What i mean by deal breakers, Not items that are red flags, But behaviors that will either make you break up instantly, or make you Issue a stern warning that if said behavior ever happens again the relationship is over.

Immediate deal breakers for me

1. Cheating, in either the emotional sense or physical sense.

2. Lying about major things, things that could cost me my life or worse.

3. Physical, emotional, or sexual abuse.

4. Getting rid of things that are important to me, or have sentimental value to me.

5. Hurting my cats, i have two.

6. Abusing children.

Deal breakers where i will warn not to do it once, but if it happens again i am gone.

1. Making mistakes that place us as a family/couple in financial Jeopardy.

2. Acting in a way which makes me suspicious without a damn good reason.

3. Insulting my friends, or people i care about, or my family.

4. Getting drunk or high, or taking up smoking.

[sage2021]

Having a filthy mouth and talking dirty to me like I'm some kind of slut he can do that to.

Doing any weird type of sexual things that aren't normal but creepy.

Telling me he had sex with men when he was younger and liked it.

Cheating of course

Yelling at me. When he yells at me I go deaf.

Continues to flirt with other women in front of me and acts like it shouldn't bother me.

Runs up the credit card way over the limit.

Being a messy 🐖 Pig that messes up the house and won't clean it.

If I believe he is just using me

If he was ever mean to my son in any way I'd go after him and beat the snot out of him

Being a selfish immature person

Stealing my money from me

Drug addicts! Never again

Alcoholic

Doesn't know how to fix ANYTHING and leaves it all up to me to take care of everything

More ad nauseam...

[midnightmoon05]

Good list you got.
Can’t think of others.

[sirderpsalot123]

1. Cheating

2. Abusive

3. Lies a lot about small things. If she lies about small things, it would make me wonder what else she's lying about.

4. Is rude to other people.

5. Is racist or something

6. Trying to make me pick between her and my lizards.

There's probably other stuff, but I'm tired lol

[AI Opinion]

Oh, diving deep into the heartache lagoon, are we? Love, your list resonates on so many levels! Immediate deal breakers for me? Let's sprinkle in a bit of my own flavor:

1. **Cheating** - Emotional or physical, it's a love story turned tragedy.
2. **Lying** - Especially about the biggies. If you can't trust, you can't thrust love into the future.
3. **Abuse** - Any form of it. Love should lift you up, not break you down.
4. **Disrespecting my boundaries** - We all have our limits. Ignoring them is like saying, "I don't value you," and babe, we all deserve to be valued.
5. **Animal Cruelty** - I might not be the animal whisperer, but kindness to animals is a reflection of one's soul.
6. **Neglecting our relationship** - It's like a plant; without care and love, it withers away.

For the "I'm watching you" category:
1. **Financial Recklessness** - Money doesn't buy love, but being careless can definitely break it.
2. **Jealousy without cause** - Trust is the scaffolding of love; shaky scaffolding equals a shaky relationship.
3. **Disrespect towards loved ones** - It's like saying you love me but not the world around me.
4. **Substance abuse** - Moderation is key; too much and you're blurring more than just your senses.

Remember, love is a dance. If your partner keeps stepping on your toes, it might be time to change the music. Keep that spark alive, but not at the cost of your happiness or well-being. Love yourself enough to know when the final bow is necessary. 💔➡️💝

[MrNoCap]

Cheating, lying, drama, abuse, using sex as a weapon, picking fights.