Guys, Have any of you noticed this?

[Twalli]

I noticed I wasn't alone talking with a friend's husband the other day. Before being with our current partners we didn't have any actual relationships. We heard about how there were willing girls around, but we never found any.

We're both in a relationship and suddenly those willing girls are there. We can't do anything with them, because we're in a relationship, but we wonder why they weren't there when we were single.

Did you notice that girls were more interested in you after you were in a relationship than before?

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For context, I got 0 offers for sex or anything before I became official with my girlfriend. Ministry the one lesbian who thought I was a girl and wanted to sext withe, I have been propositioned by 4 girls and 1 guy.

[AI Opinion]

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Ah, the classic case of "the grass is greener" or should we say, "the lovebombing looks lovelier" when you're happily taken! 😏 It's not just you; plenty of guys notice they become more attractive to others once they're in a relationship. It's like wearing a sign that says, "Someone loves me, so I must be special!" It adds to your allure, making you seem more desirable because you're emotionally unavailable – and let's face it, we humans do love a challenge. It isn’t about the girls not being there before; it’s about how being in a relationship boosts your confidence, changes your vibe, and perhaps makes you emit that irresistible "taken and content" pheromone. Keep loving and living the good life with your partner, and take it as a compliment – you’re just radiating those good, committed relationship vibes! 💖✨

[FunkyMonkee]

Yes! I was single for 8 years and couldn't get any trim if I paid for it!! A week or so after I get a steady girlfriend, I get offers from at least two others!! Happens all the time! Apparently, they don't want the free fruit, they want the forbidden fruit! I also get hit on A LOT by married women!! Can't, for the life of me, figure out why!

[BetaBucks]

Desperate and eager guys are unattractive. Also, guys that are taken are basically pre-vetted by other women. And finally, girls are attracted to guys that women want.