Boyss Do you share your girl nudes after you break up?

[Anonymous]

I'm in a unhealthy relationship and ut hurts me so much. I want to break up but i don't know where to start. Please help me

Wait the day until you met

Threat him if he threat you

Go to police

[Finchie40]

No, that’s immature , but don’t stay in an abusive relationship with someone just because you are worried he is going to share your pictures , just end it with him and move on , if you are afraid he will hurt you? you are best to break up with him over the phone or a text message and contact the police and explain to them your situation with him , if he tries to do anything stupid , he could get arrested also tell the police he has nude pictures of you as well and they could take his phone and delete them for you as well

[Telekinetic-Potato]

No. I think I’ve shown a nude to one guy and the picture I’m thinking of was not from the front or displaying a sexual activity.

Im not really into sharing nudes. Always thought it was weird guys will freak out over their girl dressing a certain way and then show her tits to all their friends.

I know you’re not supposed to say it but it’s a satisfying feeling to see guys glance at your woman or even try to talk to her and you don’t even question if anything’s going to happen. Could almost make you laugh.

[AI Opinion]

Diving right into your concern with a little twist of affection and empathy. Love shouldn't be a game of hide and seek, especially not with something as personal and intimate as trust and respect. Sharing private photos without consent is a big "no-no," completely off the love charts, and honestly, it flags down a parade of red alerts.

As for navigating out of an unhealthy relationship, it's all about finding your courage and voice, grounded in self-love and respect. First, ensure you're in a safe environment to express your intentions. Communication is key, but so is your well-being. If you fear any negative repercussions, seeking support from friends, family, or professionals might be your backstage pass to safety and peace of mind. Remember, you're the lead in your life story, not a supporting role. Keep your head up and your heart strong. ❤️

[icedragoom]

Okay, it's an unhealthy relationship but I need to know more. Here is it so bad that he's hitting you and if he's hitting you then yes go to the police but if he's not hitting you and he's just making idle threats and just yelling. Then break up with him and throw away the key if he comes after you call the police. But I need to know more details here to help sift through the dirt here

[Asker]

He's yelling at me, abuse me. We fight like a minute ago. I'm really in pain. He just act good when I show myself to him

[icedragoom]

Yeah so go to the police. Get a restraining order hunker down with someone that you know. Cares about you specifically. A loved one family friends best the less he knows about the person that you're with the better so that way he can't go after you and notify your place of work so that way they can kick his ass out of the fucking place and or not let him in break up with him. He ain't worth it. Don't tell him that you're breaking up on them. Just fucking go get out

[icedragoom]

Just pack up some clothes. Don't tell him anything and just go go to a hotel if you need to. But just get out. Worry about the other stuff later just get out

[Asker]

I don't want my parents know about police. I want to solve this quite

[icedragoom]

Look you may not want that, but no matter what it's going to get messy, there's no getting around. This look doesn't matter right now. What matters right now is your safety. You have to get out. If you don't do this, you'll lined up in the hospital or worse. Dead. Stop thinking you bragged about what the others will think and get out. This isn't about anything but your safety now. Your parents would only care that you're safe,

[Asker]

We're not living together. I don't want my parents know about it

[icedragoom]

Girl then if you're not living together then just break up with him and then be done with it. Stay home for a few days and if he tries to escalate and come after you fucking just get a restraining order

[icedragoom]

And as for the photos, don't even worry about it. They're like a small blip on the amount of porn that's actually on the internet

[Asker]

I'm afraid of he can share my nudea

[Asker]

You don't understand. We are on same university but he graduated. I'm afraid of he can send it to his friends

[icedragoom]

This is where you need to have some inner strength. Shit happens. You're going to have to accept what comes no matter what you keep being with him. You're going to keep getting beat up or worse dead leave him. He's going to be pissed when you send your nudes out there. But you know what you'll be alive and you're able to have your own life

[Asker]

I don't want my parents feel ashamed

[icedragoom]

Would you rather have them ashamed or sad about your dead body?

[icedragoom]

Which one is worse out of the two?

[RavVid]

Break up nicely for a start. Don't say anything bad about him behind his back and assume anything you do say will be repeated to him. It is hackneyed but still be friends.

He hasn't done anything wrong yet so the Police can't act on what you fear he might do

[meepmeeperton]

No I wouldn’t and most guys wouldn’t but if he’s abusive and stuff like you’re saying I’m sure he would… or he would at least keep them after you break up to pleasure himself with.

[Makeushiver]

No, its an implicit agreement that if you're going to allow that level of intimacy I'd be a real heel violating tjat.

[LiamJHayden]

I do not accept nudes in the first place. Revenge porn is illegal in half of the states of the USA, so depending upon where you live his sharing could be a crime.

[DrPepper12]

Whoa. If the police is an option get the RO before you break up with him in a very public place with friends close by, filming if necessary

[Anonymous]

what the hell is with these girls these days getting into these toxic relationships?

[Asker]

I'm so stupid

[Opinion Owner]

there's so many good single guys out there or is there more to the story you're not telling?

[Asker]

I'm just to tired of this guy. I'll never have healthy relationship

[Anonymous]

If she's dumb enough to give em. Hell we may share them before we break up.

Glad I could help!

Learn from this. Don't give out nudes again.👍💯🙂

[KostasKouvalis]

I've fallen out with many girls and never shared their nudes with anyone.

[Anonymous]

You could ask him to delete them before you break up. I don't share nudes that aren't of myself; unless we are trying to have a threesome. Revenge porn is a crime in some places; so you should look into that if he threatens you with that.

[RedInnocent69]

Um, sharing nudes that individual girls gave sent to me of themselves? Never! That’s horrible.

[noohair]

I woild never do that. But I might be a little more mature on this subject.

[MrGSpotHer]

I don't keep them I got a good memory only reason a guy keeps them is to share them

[Predetor]

İLEI'm here if you want to commiserate but she should break up with him

[Asker]

I can't. I have nudes on his phone

[Predetor]

I can give you an idea about this, you can send me a message.

[Anonymous]

Done few times, there's a whole website where men share nude pics of their ex

[FunkyMonkee]

No, I don't. That's private.

[Awantika03]

Do you allow him to click your nudes

[Asker]

He's saving them on his recyle bin. He delete them but keeping them there

[Awantika03]

He can restore anytime
So insure before breaking up that he has nothing about you

[Wise4myage]

No, I have never done that.

[Juxtapose]

No, I'm not a slime ball.

[polodude2013]

Nope. That's revenge porn which is Illegal

[Anilkumar3277]

It's not good to click picture

[Pterodon]

I’d never do that

[Julian7312]

Ugh that's bad

[kareka]

Do he threat u?

[Asker]

Not yet

[kareka]

Are u sure he saved ur nudes?

[kareka]

If yes..
Wait to the next time u see him and try to delete it

[Asker]

How can I delete him on his phone. He's saving that on his recyle bin

[kareka]

Delete the recyle

[Asker]

I don't know how can i take his phone

[kareka]

May u follow me?
I think i can help 🫣

[Asker]

I can go outside with him and maybe tell him can i use your phone but i don't think he'll believe it

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope never