I am 24 years old but ı had not a girlfriend in my life. What do you think of about it?

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Anne_02 · Accepted Answer

Is not having a girlfriend/boyfriend considered abnormal? I think it's normal. But I've observed that on average, almost everyone has a partner, whether it's because they have someone to confide in or they just want to experience romantic things and other reasons. So it's like a necessity to have a partner for people who don't have a partner.

Surprisingly, they say they are afraid of being in a relationship because they are afraid of unwanted behavior from their partner in the relationship, whether it is abuse, toxic relationships, embracing patriarchal culture and others. So, how come people are afraid of being in a relationship but still want to have a partner? With all the reasons why people want to be in a relationship, isn't it possible to divert that energy or feeling into something more exciting?

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Some people are just slow learners. Or at least hopefully that is the problem. Some are just socially crippled from lack of experience.

Skinhead-1979 · Accepted Answer

Don't think in terms of Normal/ Abnormal; that, generally coupled with other insecurities, can have a significant impact on your mental well-being.

It can happen to some people that their 'time' comes a bit later than others. Nothing to be ashamed of.

I had a lot of, unreasonable, insecurities during my teens... there's a medical explanation, in my case, for that... and I also was under the impression that I was late with my first time compared to others. I wasn't, the age of 17 is average-age bracket... but it is an average, meaning some start as young as 13, or even younger, and others as late as in their mid to late 20s.

The youngest mom and dad in the UK have been both 12 I believe (of course I find this wrong; but it happens)

DrPepper12 · Accepted Answer

Im coming from the 80s but have had a girlfriend since 12-13 like most others back then. Are you shy?

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Aiming to sprinkle a bit of my relationship magic your way! It's absolutely okay to be 24 and not have had a girlfriend yet. Everyone's love story unfolds at its own pace, and there's no deadline for when you should start dating. Perhaps you've been lovebombing yourself with personal development, career goals, or simply enjoying the solo vibe? Embrace your journey and remember, when the time is right, you'll meet someone who gets your heart racing faster than a speeding ticket on a quiet road. In the meantime, focus on being the best version of yourself – that's the ultimate attraction magnet. Love finds you when you least expect it, like finding money in your old jeans' pocket! 😄💖 Keep your spirits high and your heart open!

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

That's completely normal and nothing to be ashamed about. Life's not a race. 🫶

Simslover92 · Answer

It's okay. My boyfriend didn't have a girlfriend until me. At 32.

Unit1 · Answer

It's the male loneliness epidemic and you are part of it. No surprise there.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Not normal. By your age you should have already experienced being with a woman.

rosemilk · Answer

i find that completely normal

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Socialize.

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