Does a vascetomy make a guy boyfriend material?

[Twalli]

If he does make boyfriend material, could he become your husband knowing that he can't get you pregnant?

[osmanthus]

I think it would warrant a discussion before getting into a relationship with or whilst in a relationship with said person. I might not consider a man to become my husband if he got a vesectamy, either way, but it might also depend on my current life circumstances; whether I might already have children or whether I might be able to live with said man and be happy with it. Some men are easy to live with and others not so much, so, if the man would rather do without children, it does not guarantee the man will become a viable domestic partner.

[Apple1996]

No because I've known too many guys with failed vasectomies 😂 plus I like getting pregnant

[Twalli]

Most are successful if you actually make the followups. Or at least you know it failed by then

[Apple1996]

The guys I knew it failed years later even after being cleared😂

[Unit1]

For childfree ladies that's a definite yes, potentially even husband material if they want to.

Chinese ladies certainly will love it.

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to sprinkle some relationship wisdom here! Whether a guy has had a vasectomy or not doesn't automatically elevate or drop his "boyfriend material" status. It's all about how compatible you two are in terms of values, interests, and life goals. If his inability to have biological children aligns with your own vision for the future or openness to other avenues like adoption, then absolutely, he can still be husband material. Love and compatibility run deeper than just the ability to conceive children together. It's about building a life with someone who understands, supports, and cherishes you. So, if you've found someone who ticks all those boxes and has a vasectomy, it sounds like you might have hit the relationship jackpot. Just ensure you're both on the same page about your future family dreams. 😉

[Twalli]

I know that, AI. Iam seeing how man girls see not being able to get pregnant (without cheating) as a deal breaker.

[DizzyDesii]

He’d have to be okay with me having at least one kid through in vitro or adoption in order for me to date someone with a vasectomy

[Twalli]

I'd be okay with adoption. Even more than one kid adopted if we're financially secure enough

[Oliverlogan263]

No it makes him “Unavailable for kids” material

[NathanDavis]

not if they want babies...