What kind of person should an angry person marry?

Question

I am an angry person and I am jealous, that's why I prefer the person I love to be calm. Two angry people cannot live with each other.

exitseven · Accepted Answer

I have been angry all my life. My wife is the opposite and tells me to stop being so angry. She just does not get it.

LiamJHayden · Accepted Answer

Someone strong and patient.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach, I'm here to share insights! Balancing fiery passion with a calming breeze can work wonders. A calm and understanding partner who communicates openly could help you both thrive. Remember, though, it's crucial to address your own feelings and work on managing emotions. Love is about growth and understanding each other's quirks, right? You've got this, love! 💖✨

TheRealPepperPotts · Answer

No one. They really need to deal with the anger first, if they don't want to pass down unhealthy patterns to the kids.

Angry people often have high expectations from life, from themselves and from others. They struggle to cope with feelings of disappointment and proceed to get angry. The good news is that it's perfectly OK to get angry; what's not OK is treating overreaction and verbal abuse as proper expressions of anger.

A few helpful things to do are:

Begin to recognize your anger early and accept that whatever it was triggered that response for some reason. If you catch it early, you can start to practice calming down and active processing. It seems childish, but eventually it will become second-nature.

Learn to take deep, slow breaths and release slowly. This calms your brain so that you can deal with the frustration more objectively.

Genuinely apologizing whenever you overreact helps a lot. It tends to cause you to check yourself if you know that you are starting to lose it and will need to apologize later.

Having someone you can vent to is helpful; someone who will make space for your feelings, even if they are disproportionate.

I once heard a man say that pessimism is the cure for anger. Assume that nothing will go perfectly or as expected, and then be pleasantly surprised when it does.

Again, it's OK to get angry. Everyone does. Some people just have more practice with processing and accepting their difficult feelings. It's harder for others. It's not the feeling that makes a person dysfunctional; it's how they respond to the feeling.

ohsheeT · Answer

I would hope nobody until they got their anger issues workout that's just no life for anybody

I wouldn't even wish it on anybody when I see people argue or fight I either have to say something or I have to get up and walk awayre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I can't believe some of these answers. People saying angry people don't deserve love, unless they change.

I'm an angry and jealous too. Even if someone is angry, it doesn't necessarily mean they'll act that way towards YOU! You just need someone who is loyal and understanding of you, knows your triggers and is respectful and non-judgemental. These things are the key. If there is mutual respect, loyalty, trust, compassion, care and understanding, then they won't show any anger towards each other. If the person does things that make you angry, it means they don't really care about you and aren't loyal. And I am speaking from experience. You just need to find someone who doesn't make you angry.

As for jealousy, this is a normal human emotion. If they aren't jealous, it means they don't really love. You just need to establish boundaries and stick by them. A lot of jealousies stem from insecurities and lack of trust. But if you're able to find a loyal and trustworthy partner, these feelings will go away. Like I said, you just need to set boundaries with the person and trust that they will be kept.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Here’s a wild idea: get help and heal your anger issues THEN find a husband

I say this as someone who grew up with anger that would’ve made most men suicidal or homecidal

I didn’t get formal therapy but I did take conscious decisions and steps towards dealing with the anger

And now, many years later, I no longer feel its grip on me

LazerBean · Answer

They should not. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Uhm. You might want to analyze why you are so angry and work on that? Would be healthier, especially in the long run.

es20490446e · Answer

A calm person handles anger better, but at the same time they hate it more.

If you want something, you must create the conditions for achieving it.

You cannot expect a partner with a great personality if yours is nasty.

Jay-_- · Answer

None but if we have to choose, someone as angry as them. (I believe in a God who gives people what people deserve I also believe in a just God who has plans different than ours and some people call it unjust punishment but its simply not true according to our flawful plans we assume our future but God sees the true future the far away future that we cannot see.) re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

Fireguy17 · Answer

well unless you find someone that likes to be treated like that, I would say do others a favor and stay single. I would not put up with that type of behavior.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Someone who can understand and empathize with their partner's anger issues. Good luck trying to find that, though.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

At your age…you can fix that. Anger is not good for your health… and not fair to anyone who wants to be with you.

Kayleigh2005 · Answer

That’s a dark path and I abuse myself through drinking and sex and not others  u have to fix ur self first

slatyb · Answer

You should get counseling before you consider marrying. How do you imagine a marriage is going to work?

avery58 · Answer

An imaginary person or a cuckold that likes to be berated

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Being the type of person you are you have to marry a man that's calm and supportive some that will reassure you and tells you how much he loves and needs you

katiesmuff · Answer

Maybe instead you spend some time working on your personality.

spartan55 · Answer

You need to marry a simp doormat. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

nawtee_me · Answer

The thing to do would be to resolve your anger before you marry do you don’t end up divorced….

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Get therapy before you marry or date seriously

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

If you take care of your mate there is no reason to be jealous

Jerre · Answer

A man who can help you calm down when you are angry

msc545 · Answer

Nobody at all until the anger subsides and stays resolved.

jahaims · Answer

An angry person is immature. Immature people shouldn't be in relationships

kaucky1 · Answer

You're just angry not being satisfied re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

Cheerfull009 · Answer

In your post , you have mentioned that you have a boyfriend, you had sex many times , and you were going marry him, why you ask about other person?

Nerdvana · Answer

Angry or jealous people should not get married at all.

Billlewis · Answer

Someone whose ass they can beat... lol

Fury_storm · Answer

nobody wants an angry person

Jennz6 · Answer

Marry someone submissive

Crazzyyworld · Answer

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