If you can only choose 3, what would you choose?

[itsannalee]

1. Money
2. Free unlimited medical care
3. Partner
4. Family
5. Friends

[SueShe]

Number one would be family
Number two would be free unlimited health care and
Number three would be money

You can live perfectly happy without friends or a partner but you cannot live without health care. Depending on where you live, health care can't take up to 25% of your income and if you are on minimum wage, if you are homeless or just incapable to have decent health care, then you are in trouble.

Family is the most important in life and money, well, it is somehow important if you want to buy food and water, get shelter, have clothing and be warm. Food, water, sleep, clothing and shelter are the 5 basic needs every human being needs in order to survive.

I don't need millions but sufficient funds to rent a 2 room apartment and to pay for my food and bare necessities.

[itsannalee]

But if you got money enough, you don’t need free healthcare though.

[SueShe]

If you go to some countries for example, your basic health insurance will cost you somewhere between $250 and $450 a month on a minimum wage of about $3,000/month while a decent 3 room apartment will cost a minimum of $1,800/month and food for a single person $500/month. Next you need insurance that will also cost you an arm and a leg. I am not even mentioning taxes that will also put a big hole in your finances.

At the end of the month, you are in the negative and you will have some of your belongings repossessed.

I don't need a lot of money but just to have enough to make ends meet. I don't need to go on holidays, I don't need a car, I don't need fancy clothing but to have a $200/month reserve would be nice.

[itsannalee]

But if $250 is expensive for you it means your money is not enough.

[SueShe]

Perhaps but I am not the kind of person that needs a lot of money to be happy. Money corrupts people and they become egoistic and self-centered. That's now who I want to be. The bare minimum is enough for me.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Three? Also a buxom blonde girlfriend and CAISH !!!

[Brittanyroseee]

Money, as in financial stability, i can afford anything i want and need.
A loyal, genuine partner
And good friends.
I didn’t add family because to me that would sound like having kids with a partner and i just want the partner part. I have my own family that raised me obviously

[uncleBobbyb77]

3,4, and 5 without question. It seems very self-evident to me because if you have those three things and you are taking care of your relationships then your relationships will in turn take care of you. Can you believe that some people are so poor that all they have in this world is money and power. I actually pity those people you don't have love and meaningful, soulful, deep and intimate relationships enriching their lives. That would be horrible and Akin to Hell on Earth if you ask me

[HawkPerception]

Money solves health care, so I'll take money, partner and family. Friends are nice, but they can come and go in life.

[AI Opinion]

On Girls Ask Guys, my goal is to help you navigate life's choices with a dash of fun and a sprinkle of wisdom! If I could only choose 3, I'd go with partner, family, and friends. Having a partner to share life's journey with adds so much joy. Family gives love and strength, while friends bring laughter and support. It's like having a dream team cheering you on through life's adventures! 🌟 But hey, don't let go of money and medical care either, they're pretty important too, just like that spare pair of glasses I always keep handy! 😉

[ohsheeT]

You forgot happiness I would probably take many health card and partner

[genericname85]

i don't get it. if i have money, why would i care about free unlimited medical care? i can just pay for it. also without a partner you can't have a family. cause the family unit is defined as "father mother and children". without a partner i won't have children and thus no family.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I don't really care about any of this shit.

I'll take the money x3 if I need to make a choice though.

[Orion84]

1) Money

2) Healthcare

3) Friends

I don't want a partner, anymore, and I've cut my family out of my life, so I choose those three by default.

[EmmaMary]

1. Husband.

2. Family.

3. Friends.

[itsannalee]

No money?

[EmmaMary]

Money does not bring you the happiness of having your family and friends in your life

[itsannalee]

How would you pay your family medical bills, medical cares, education for kids if you have no money? 🤔

[EmmaMary]

Thankfully through sheer hard work, we're extremely financially secure.

[itsannalee]

The question doesn’t work that way lol

[EmmaMary]

Sorry... In that case it would very sadly have to be:

1. Husband.

2. Family.

3. Money.

How about your goodself @itsannalee

[itsannalee]

I choose the same
1. Money
2. Partner
3. Family

[Jennz6]

@itsannalee The husband pays the bills

[strateguy632]

First, only poor deserve free health care, and limited so won't misuse the system.

1, money is vague, if you mean lots, then i only need 5.

[avery58]

Money, family, and partner. Easiest choice ever.

[sage2021]

friends! I have always had a lot of friends until this time in my life and I don't like it one bit!! 😞

[Unit1]

1, 3, 5

With money healthcare is paid for. Easy.

[LiamJHayden]

1, 2, 5

1. My goal is financial freedom.
2. My health is super important to me.
3. I have no partner.
4. My family is all deceased.
5. My friends are everything to me.

[TheBootyChest]

Partner, Friends, and money (only because you said 3). And in that order.

[Kelley1]

Money, family, including my husband and my children, and friends.

[Nikki1989]

1. Partner

2. Free Unlimited Medical Care

3. Friends

[Anonymous]

Honestly I could have it all. W money I could have unlimited medical care. My partner would be part of my family as well as my friends because friends to me are family.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Translator

well since I live in Europe, nr. 2 is already real

I'd chose money, friends and partner. Family is also already all good

[TacosRAwesome]

Money and partner for sure. Stuck between friends and family.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Most EU countries have all 5 and more.

[itsannalee]

That’s not true, there are a lot homeless in Europe too, and there are a lot poor single man from Europe too.

[FunkyMonkee]

I'm not greedy but, at the moment, money, partner, friends (or at least free medical)

[Juxtapose]

Partner, family & friends. The other stuff can come via other ways.

[Juxtapose]

(And let's be real, if you have good loved ones they will provide for you even if you are broke.)

[itsannalee]

Sounds like fairytale

[Juxtapose]

I literally have had people provide for me when I have been down on my luck and my friends are so good, my current roommate who I have known since I was 16? He would let me stay with him for free if I needed to. I pay him rent VOLUNTARILY.

And if that failed? I have my mother who would gladly help me financially in any way she possibly could. She has a Mercedes and lives in a nice part in Florida, so she can at least afford to feed me if need be.

And that's not even considering if I had a partner, how much money she would have. So really, I'm already pretty well taken care of. I already have good friends and family, I only really need a partner at this point in my life.

[itsannalee]

1. The question doesn’t work that way

2. If you and your parents, family and friends get cancer, or sick their medical treatment will not be paid with love.
If you and your parents, family and friends are hungry their food will not be paid for with love.
If you have kids in the family their education and college will not be paid for with love.

[Juxtapose]

You're assuming just because I am not handed money by the question that I cannot get food some other way. You never forbid being gifted food and I could survive that way. I would rather survive that way than give up my partner, my family or my friends. It really is that simple and it is totally possible. I could live right now without paying any bills and off of the generosity of my loved ones if I really needed to. That's a beauty of relationships.

[Juxtapose]

If you're really going to make the question about starving or not, you should not have money even be an option. It should be auto included as one of the selected options since you can't have anything else if you're dead.

[Juxtapose]

Oh and also hunting myself and growing my own food is an option.

[itsannalee]

Okay, now send the kids to the college and others to hospital with love 😍😍😍

[Juxtapose]

I don't want kids and if I really needed to, other people could pay my hospital bills. If you can't earn money, the government will give you insurance if you qualify by the way.

[Juxtapose]

Irl I actually have really good insurance while making very little money. For my last surgery I only paid $14 because the insurance covered everything else.

[Juxtapose]

And you don't really need college. I never could afford college and I still have a roof over my head 🤷

[itsannalee]

Lmfao ok

[Juxtapose]

Actually now they think about it, if I had kids they could go to trade school and become an electrician or a plumber. That is good, consistent money. A local friend of mine made bank off of demolition.

[Juxtapose]

You may laugh but I feel bad for you if you have people that will not cover for you if you have no money.

[CarolinaGirl5]

@itsannalee very much a fairytale lol

[CarolinaGirl5]

You're in lala land sir lol

[Juxtapose]

@CarolinaGirl5 I have actual experience with this and you people ignore it xD

[Jennz6]

1. Family

2. Friends

3. money

[Iron_Man]

Family…. A wife… And money to live a good decent life

[SunnyRS]

For me it would be 1 3 and 4.
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[Jamie05rhs]

3, 4, and 5re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Anonymous]

Family, friends and money

We get free (at point of access) medical care already plus I'm asexual and aromantic so a partner is a moot point

[beefcakebradybatson]

Two, because I'm 71 and had a stroke 43 months ago.

[Darkest-Knight]

Money. Free unlimited medical care. Friends.

[Anonymous]

One, two and three. Without three, I don't see that point frankly.

[Simslover92]

Money partner family

[Anonymous]

Just three?

Ok, then it's:

Money
Partner
Family

[alice55]

Money, partner and family

[PrettyPumPum]

1. 3. & 4.

We get free healthcare on the NHS (UK)

[Account]

Family, friends and free unlimited medical care.

[exitseven]

partner family and friends.

[WhitneySnow]

Partner family friends

[AviatorTom]

3 4 5

[ubercharming]

Money
Partner
Friends

[Amur8711]

Money, partner, family

[elizamichale1]

Family

Money

Friends

[Anonymous]

money, friends, partner

[lorenzomichael]

family, friends, and cars

[MrCharlie13]

1 gets you 2. 3 gets you 4. And 5

[KrakenAttackin]

With money, all the others will come.

[abdulai]

Hello

[SpaceGalaxy]

money, free med care, partner

[ClassicDropout]

145 easy

[ThebestIndian]

Money, Family, Partner

[307navyblueboy]

Money

Friends

family

[Anonymous]

I'd choose 3-5

[Anonymous]

Partner, money and family.

[HighValue]

1, 3, 4.

[NewWaves]

1,3,4

[Agape93]

2 and 5.

[Agape93]

And partner

[Cinar3434]

1,3,4

[ihateTaylorSwift]

1 4 and 5

[Makeushiver]

You.

[David5668]

1, 3 & 5

[CarolinaGirl5]

12 and 4

[dudeinohio]

1 2 3

[Adel50]

1, 3, 4.

[Den1971]

1, 2, 3

[Ironco]

1, 3, and 5