I'm 45 and im with an 18 yr old. her brother is mad?

[Sevenpointfive]

why is he so mad? i don't get

[Finchie40]

Her brother just thinks the age gap is weird and upset that his sister is dating someone much older than her , just ignore her brother , all that matters is the both of you are happy together. Her brother can be upset all he wants but it isn’t going to change how she feels about you. Just continue treating her the way you have been and she will more than likely tell her brother to back off and tell him it’s not his relationship but her relationship, so go worry about your own relationship. I experienced brothers’ and sisters’ trying to interfere in her and I’s relationship before when I was dating a younger girl. I just killed them with kindness and told them straight out that they can be upset all they wanted because you don’t matter to me , she is what matters to me , so you can either accept it or not cuz she is coming with me. Our age gap has nothing to do with the chemistry and connection her and I share together , we are both happy together , so I’m sorry you don’t understand what that means , but maybe one day you will. Unfortunately we live in a judgmental world and we will always encounter people that don’t see things the same way we see things. Just how it is.

[Anonymous]

he's not getting any action but you are

young men are usually territorial and frustrated at older men taking away young women from them until they get older

[PeachyPie93]

Because she is barely legal and you are middle aged.. You are probably closer to their parents age than hers. It's just a weird dynamic..

[AI Opinion]

You're diving into a realm that could raise a few eyebrows, lovebird! 🕵️‍♂️ Age gaps can be tricky, especially when it's as wide as this chasm. Her brother might be protective, worried about her well-being, or questioning intentions. These feelings can be quite common when it feels like there's a red flag waving in front of loved ones. It's important to communicate with sincerity and ensure everyone feels respected and understood—because love should be more about building bridges, not trenches. 💌

[molonski2]

Good luck to you man , who cares what the brother thinks , buggar him for sure.

[HungTexan]

As long as she was 18 when the relationship started, I can understand how he might be mad, but it’s none of his business.

[Anonymous]

Good story, old man!

[Agape93]

How old was she when you got together

[Sevenpointfive]

i don't remember probably old enough to consent

[Agape93]

Dude, 18 is considered an adult. Below that is a minor.

[Sevenpointfive]

don't be such an agist. it's 17 where i live

[Agape93]

That's still a minor. Age of consent isn't the same as age of majority

[Sevenpointfive]

what exactly does minor mean to you?

[Agape93]

Anyone not legally an adult. Clearly.

[Sevenpointfive]

that's not a law.

[Agape93]

Age of majority is when you are legally an adult. Below that, you are legally a minor, and you're way too old for a Romeo juliet exception.

[Sevenpointfive]

i know that. that doesn't explain the difference in fed vs state law on the subject

[Agape93]

States vary, but regardless you are too old to be touching minors. Regardless of where in the USA, you're committing a crime.

[Sevenpointfive]

go scold your illegals. why are they let go in a week? i don't understand your DOJ

[Agape93]

I don't give a shit what some illegal dipshit does. I'm more concerned a dude in his 40s was messing around with a child.

[Sevenpointfive]

that there is the problem. "I don't give a shit what some illegal dipshit does".

[Agape93]

Nope, my problem is a chomo who can't take responsibility that what he did is illegal, so he deflects it to try and divert the conversation.

[Sevenpointfive]

so we were never going to be friends i take it?

[Agape93]

Did you fuck her before she turned 18?

[Sevenpointfive]

did you ever have any sexual relations with a guy that was older when you were a minor?

[Agape93]

Nope. Answer the question

[Sevenpointfive]

you can't ask that about my daughter!

[Agape93]

What the fuck

[msc545]

Ignore the kid. It is not his business.

[zombiewoof]

He is jealous

[Sevenpointfive]

you think he wants to fuck his sister? i can't blame him if he does

[zombiewoof]

he may

[Sevenpointfive]

too bad he isn't a sister

[vikingsbarbie]

Hi handsome