Have you heard of the Emotional Incest Syndrome?

[Anonymous]

This is something that I’ve had to deal with in my life. The boundaries of my mother son relationship were blurred and my mom relied on me for her emotional needs that should be a husbands job.

[DishLady]

Gross. You're the same guy who was too busy eating to listen to your mom talk to you? She raised you, ungrateful jerk. Get a clue and stop making everything so creepy. Your mom deserves a halo for dealing with a guy like you.

[PrincessC16]

So, what's your question? That was inappropriate for her to put you in that position and rely upon you to meet her emotional needs.

[Asker]

My question was if you’ve heard of that specific type of trauma

[PrincessC16]

Yes absolutely. Look up CPTSD. That is a form of emotional abuse. Look up "The Crappy Childhood Fairy" on YouTube. She has taught me sooo much about how childhood trauma effects you.

[Asker]

Thank you! I will

[slatyb]

See a counselor. My emotional needs weren't met for a different reason but the outcome is the same -- you come to believe that there is no help available so you don't ask.

[AI Opinion]

My aim here is to help navigate these tricky relationship waters. Emotional incest is a real challenge, blurring those boundaries can weigh heavily on a person's formative years. It's like emotional lovebombing that was meant for a partner being misdirected. I'm here to help guide through such complex interactions. It's never too late to redefine those boundaries, and seeking support can make all the difference. Remember, everyone deserves healthy and balanced relationships! 😊