Guys would you be upset if your girlfriend or wife cheats on you with a woman?

[Tigress1039]

Yes

No

[Master_Debator]

I jerk off to the thought of her getting down with a woman. Reality though... women don't do that unless some dick is attached to the idea. Basically... the realist inside me knows that if a random chick comes into the picture... the dicks that are not my dick are probably in place and she's (the new cool chick) is just dragging my girl into her world. If it isn't to appease her man's dick, it's to appease her man's friends dicks with booty.

Let the facts sink in on girl girl stuff... almost a 100% domestic abuse issue at hand and if it's not that some random dude is in the picture which could be dudes as in plural because he has friends.

The dream never happens... girls added into the equation from the girl side is just drama. I get girls on my own and nothing ever happens.

[uzumymw]

Of course it would still upset me. If she wanted to do something with another woman, she could just discuss it with me instead. I've been in a relationship where my then girlfriend wanted to experience more with another woman and we ended up doing that together.

[ShellyB]

I am not a guy but, I will answer bc it is a topic that comes up in a joking or “joking” way sometimes in my relationship, he has clearly and repeatedly told me this would be fine. However the way he words it, I think he means it would be fine if it was just sex and not a relationship that would interfere with our relationship.

Personally I would not feel OK with it unless he was also involved which of course sounds like some people’s fantasy but I feel like it could get complicated. For example if I think he’s too into her or looks at her too much it might be something that would bother me longterm, I think it’s better to not take that risk although honestly it is kind of a fantasy for me actually.

[Master_Debator]

Don't bother with the fantasy. 10 out of 10 times the other girl basically Suprises everyone with a dude she's trying to keep and can't do it on her own. Her promise to that dude is to deliver you to him.

I'm not bullshiting about this. Even the Lesbians complain about these bitches. They'll pretend they want some pussy and then bam... she has a dude that wants to join in out of nowhere that was known to you. I mean try it and you'll see what I'm talking about. Every. Single. One of those girls that say stuff like "girls only" has a man in tow that she can't control him without the promise of more pussy than hers.

The lesbians have a word that describes them but I just can't remember it right now. But that's how bad it is that they even have a word and a definition dedicated to them. I long winded the definition here, but if you find that word... that's going to drive me crazy until I find that word again.

[ShellyB]

@Master_Debator You may be right, actually I might be kind of guilty of this myself also, not that I have actually done a three way but, when I imagine it, it is me my guy plus a girl. So, I would be bringing a guy to it. However I would not misrepresent it, that would be the deal.

I think it could be, just so pleasant and super nice so I do fantasize about it.

However I also think about stuff like, I would need rules like he can’t touch her only me, which might not be fair or even possible for everybody to stay with so there would be a lot of risk that something would happen that I would dwell on and blame him for, and that is true even if he does nothing wrong and it’s just me thinking about things. I just feel like it’s too risky for us, because of me not him. And, I wouldn’t want to do anything sexual without him involved.

[butterly248]

My boyfriend would be yes. Our relationship would be over. And it makes no sense why I would do that. We r both open to a threesome and I maybe a cuck quean so 😂😂

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'd say cheating, regardless of gender, can shake the trust like a California earthquake 🌍💔. It might stir up mixed feelings of betrayal, confusion, and curiosity. Some might see it as a red flag in their relationship, while others could view it as an opportunity to explore new facets together. Communication is key! Discussing boundaries and feelings openly can help navigate these complex emotions. Love is a wild ride, my friend! 💘🚀

[Finchie40]

yes, i would be upset and more than likely dump her over it , considering that is something she should of discussed with me before getting into a relationship with me. Overall, it's still cheating

[Berethor]

I don't think so, lesbian sex is not real sex, I would try to get a FFM threesome out of it.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Girl-On-Girl_Is_Hot

[Kaneki05]

I'd be upset by her lying and more confused since I am okay with a Bi girlfriend who wants to sleep with girls

[CuriousMufuxka]

Yup. Just because she's got all of those wonderful pillowy parts doesn't mean the same deception didn't take place. Shit, they could've told the guy before and sealed a 3way!

[Tigress1039]

Ur funny

[OneViewpoint]

I would be puzzled. LOL, pick a side. Girlfriend? I'd ask for a threesome. Wife? I'd be gone.

[DryGermanGuy]

Duh! 🙄 Yes? I don’t need any porn story clichés in my real life!

[Twalli]

If she wants to be with a woman as well as me, I'd prefer to be part of it, even if it's just voyeuristic.

[Anonymous]

Happened with an ex. I was allowed to watch.

[Lucianmagnus]

no i wouldn't be mad. but now we all 3 gon f together now

[Pohjolan]

Jokes on you. It wouldn't be cheating since I'd permit it in the first place.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

cheating is cheating, out the door she goes

[tzdc21]

Cheating is Cheating, regardless of gender.

[fivebyfour]

no it would be a massive turn on for me,,,

[LiamS95]

Not as long as I can join in.

[jahaims]

Duh, what kind of moron would ask that

[Brady]

I don't no but would probably tell her 2 stop.

[dudeinohio]

Definitely

[beefcakebradybatson]

Or a man.