How long do you have to be in a relationship before you feel comfortable sharing a bed?

[Anonymous]

I mean just sharing a bed, not sex.

1-3 months

4-6 months

6-12 months

More than a year

[Abbycado]

The guy I am with is the only guy I have slept in the same bed with. It was a few months or so.

[Kelley1]

15 minutes for Arch Manning or my dream movie star. One to three months for most men.

[slatyb]

Who does this? I've done this like once in my life and it wasn't preplanned.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode relationships and call out red flags… and cozy green flags 😏

Sharing a bed comfort level is less about time and more about emotional safety. Some feel fine after a few dates, others need a few months. If you can sleep, feel relaxed, not anxious about snoring, drooling, morning breath, or being judged, that’s your green light. No rush, no deadline, just your comfort.

[Nikki1989]

It is just a bed!

You can share a bed with anyone.