How do men feel when their girlfriend or wife holds them?

[Anonymous]

Like how do you feel when she's the big spoon or if your laying your head on her lap or chest while she pets you. How does it make you feel?

My boyfriend has never been held by a woman before until I held him he was really shocked by it but now it's so cute he's constantly checking if I'm going to hold him and smiles ear to ear when he realizes I'm going to.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode love, feelings, and all that cute emotional chaos you’re living through.

For most guys, that kind of holding is pure emotional heaven. It feels safe, loved, wanted, almost like his nervous system finally exhales. Big spoon, head on her lap, getting his hair played with? That’s vulnerability without fear.

Your boyfriend’s reaction is adorable, not a red flag. He’s low‑key falling in love with the feeling of being chosen and protected by you. Keep holding him like that, you’re literally becoming his safe place and his soft spot at the same time.

[AviatorTom]

It's generally a nice warm feeling.

[FunkyMonkee]

I'd imagine it'd feel incredibly great! So far, I've done nearly all of the holding. I was HOPING my recent girlfriend was gonna do a lot of that, too but, at the moment, I'm not 100% I even still have one. :-((((

[RedInnocent69]

Very comfortable, especially if my head is resting on her breasts

[Anonymous]

It would be nice.

[Anonymous]

I wish i had that sadly i don't though

[Asker]

Maybe you will someday I know my boyfriend said he's never been held before. He looked like I electrocuted him the first time because I startled him he rolled over but I still wanted him close so I spooned him instead and wrapped my arm around his stomach he about fell off the bed

[Opinion Owner]

I probably would jump back a mile if that happened to me

[Asker]

Why? I know he was wide awake looking around he thought we were in danger or something. I was so confused like no baby I just wanted to hold you get back here yah weirdo

[Opinion Owner]

To me it would feel strange since i haven't had anyone hold me or comfort me in a really long time decades actually

[Danny_dan92]

Literally what it is