My boyfriend hardly ever kisses me anymore, what do you do?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We used to always have our hands on each other, but now... it seems like he doesn't want me anymore. He only gives me pecks on lips, say lovey dovey things to me anymore, sex is barely once or twice a month, just everything kinda seems dull...he sometimes hardly ever says he loves me anymore too..

What would you do?

I've talked to him about his behavior many times... it'll be okay for a few days but then go back to dull again.

Stay and discuss it with him

Break up with him

[101babe]

i think there is another girl not trying to be mean.. but seriouslty I think there is someone else because when you have a boyfriend or girlfriend you want to be with that person, you think about that person and you want to kiss that person and show affection. when they slowly back off, and it becomes less I suspect somethings up. unless you specifically have changed a lot and he doesn't like the new you.. I think that's the case.

[Asker]

I have secretly checked through his phone and everything.. there is no girl.

[Anonymous]

Most relationships lose the sparks after you've been together for so long unless either of you start to bring the sparks back.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Discuss it with him. If nothing changes, then whatever. But always try and communicate through problems instead of just up and leaving. Tbh if you really think you can just up and leave you might as well have and never bothered with a relationship with him.

[ngreenw]

Yea, takes two to tango, best not to force these things. Ask him why he's like it maybe, see if that gives you any idea? Sounds like its quite a big deal for you and it doesn't look like he can change naturally. If discussing isn't helpful, then break up.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like this thing is ending. Affection is a barometer to the state of the relationship.

[JayCutler]

try changing the scenery

[Asker]

how so?

[JayCutler]

try go on vacations, have sex in diff location, like places where you think you might get caught, try quickies etc etc