Questions: Relationships

When you’re in a relationship (if you’ve never been in one, imagine you had one), do you put your partner’s happiness before yours, or yours before theirs?

I put my partner's happiness first. I think in a relationship you gotta put your partner first. Obviously both have to do that, if you're putting your partner first, but they're not putting you first, then things aren't gonna work out.

I'm a girl by the way using my guy friend's account. So, there's this guy who I've been talking to lately and its possible we might end up being together. So today, he wasn't feel well so I told him to take pain killers so he'll feel better. He said no so I asked why. He said he hated them so I just said suit yourself. Right after, he said "stop being petty lol". I got upset, but didn't say anything but I guess he caught up that I was because of my attitude. He said "I'll just leave you alone". Was I right to be upset? I mean he literally said that I'm immature and blow things out of proportions just because I wanted him to feel better.

I'm 28 year old virgin and together with a very experienced woman (26).

I value sex very much and see it as the greatest form of love and would only engage in it with a person i truly love. I had 1 relationship before her but it didn't work out and when didn't do more than kissing (i didn't wanted to)
My girlfriend had a very colourful past with lots of ons, wfb and other things. I don't judge her past because i wasn't a part of it and she is with me now. I am her third boyfriend and the only who was longer than 6 months and her sexual partner is according to her 80+ (i didn't ask, she told me after i said im a virgin). She is a beautyful kind woman and i really like her.

But my question is: will she value the sex with me?

I somehow can't believe that she might enjoy the sex with me and feel it as special, i mean what is special at the 80+ dick you try. She had lots of sex with so many guys and why should be sex with me special when she has such a casual view on it and sees it as a purely physical act (she didn't tell me it but this is what i think, how could she see sex as love when she shared it with so many random strangers)

So is it possible that she will see it as something wonderful and special or not?

What about you experienced man and woman, do you consider the sex with your SO as special and is it different than casual sex. How does it feel for you having sex with your SO, do you look farward to it more than the moments you had casual sex?

So my dumb stupid boyfriend made a sexiest bet with me and now i get too dress him up and i am letting you guys pick which outfits he will be wearing
So yeah

Ps he will be wearing all 3 and since he was sexiest he will be doing some things for me

Just wondering where we all stand on this.