How do I tell my wife I'm bicurious?

[Squiggy]

I've been with my wife for over ten years, married for nearly 7. Even before she and I got together I had a desire to be with men, but I love women too much to switch to the other side. I don't want to hurt her or make her feel like she's not enough, but these urges come up every so often. Help.

[Bon-Bon]

Well don't tell her you're bi, at least not yet.. because that might freak her out and she could jump to conclusion you're gonna end up gay. I mean it doesn't matter now, you're married anyway, so it's not like you could pursue it, but she is your wife and I get why you feel the need to share this. You could tell her in a curious kind of way ''I wonder what it would be like to be with a man...'' and watch her reaction, discuss it a little bit, test the waters before you drop it on her you might actually be bi.

[Anonymous]

All you can do is sit her down and talk to her. You are asking to cheat on her though so I don't think that will go well. Any chance she could peg you and you can kind of experiment with her or that she would be okay with mfm threesomes? Being bi doesn't mean you get to be with one person of each gender.. . you have to completely commited to the person your with when your with them and when your single you have freedom to date people regardless of gender.

[YeahJustAsking]

in my opinion you should just carefully ask her. if i was married and my husband asked me carefully what i think, i'd be really open to anything (although me being pan probably affects that a lot). it's probably best to just be honest but careful.

[AleDeEurope]

Ask her to have a threesome with another man, then when she goes to the bathroom to get ready, start sucking the guy's dick and when she comes out, be like "surprise!!!"

[DizzyAster]

"Honey, I like dick too!! What do you want to do about it?"

Seriously, you should have said something earlier.

[Anonymous]

"I love women too much to switch to the other side."

You're still so in denial, poor woman.

[Sha84]

then don't tell her, problem solved