Polls: Relationships

I remember my ex did this often... it did make me wonder if she did anything bad she never told me about lol.

Unpopular opinion, folks only hate interracial relationships when the guy is black https://t.co/hU7cl3Bz1J

— #WashedChronicles (@_jmoye) November 21, 2025

Do you envision yourselves as two lawyers defending your cases, two detectives searching for the truth, or two architects trying to build a better structure?

If the only two options were getting married and never having kids or having kids but being single which would you prefer

Trigger warning but I don't care about what people say vs how they actually respond. You can tell single people get jealous cause of their facial expressions when they see two happy couples holding hands or anything more than that. I understand PDA is an ick for people but then why do they get repulsed by seeing them hold hands or sending each other love gestures like love cards, and heart symbols using planes, birds, etc.

I used to think it was better to stay single if you couldn't have the one you love but the older I get the more I like the idea of settling for someone I can learn to love

She was super nice with me.

For example, when my mom died, she wrote to me very nice messages

She initiated conversations with whattsapp, sent pictures, etc.

However, when I asked her out, she flaked.

Did she friendzone me without me being aware?

Which do you enjoy being?
If we're both naked and I'm 'in the mood' I prefer big spoon for better positioning but sometimes I like the comfort of being the little spoon.

Simple question right? I will concede that falling in love with someone isn't 100% a choice, its a combination of attraction, and chemical responses. But continuing to love someone i believe is a choice.

Let me explain why i believe that.

Love needs to be nurtured. To maintain the relationship, you can't just expect the "Spark" to be there. Both sides need to make effort. Both sides need to do the things that maintain connection.

For example, Every morning when i wake up, i wake a half our prior to actually needing to get up so i can get extra cuddle time with my wife. When i come home from lunch i hug her, and tell her how much i miss her. When i come home at the end of the day i do the same, and then we cook together.. the important term here is Together. Hell even my furniture choices have centered around making sure that even when we are just watching a show together it means cuddle time. Additionally i took my grandfathers advice seriously, which was "Never stop dating your wife" So i make sure to do things like date nights, and spontaneous gifts, And by gifts, i mean things she's been wanting, to things as simple as chocolate. I tell her she's beautiful every day, and i tell her how much i love her every day. And this isn't one way, My wife does similar stuff for me.

Bottom line, if i chose to stop doing all of that, my wife would first think that there was something wrong, Then she would think that i was angry with her, and finally she would think that i dont love her. It would essentially kill the marriage.

Love, Marriage, And everything in between takes effort, Marriage is hard work, Its remembering to do the little things. Its making sure above all else that you have open lines of communication.

A lot of people fail to comprehend that, and i believe this is the reason for the horrific divorce rate.

See the following poem. it explains it quite well
https://hellopoetry.com/poem/1959983/love-needs-nurture/