Guys, Do you think it sucks that a man can only truly be happy if he finds a loving woman?

[foxsquirrell]

I mean we tend to be programmed like that, and there is nothing we can do about it really. It sucks because either you stay single and feel that there is something missing, or you find a girl and you probably are going to face a myriad of problems (money based mostly), and there is always the risk of a heartbreak.

Just think of Elvis for instance Pricilla left him, and it caused him much emotional distress (and money!). You Were Always on My Mind was surely written for her.

It goes to show how cruel is nature. It does not care about us as individuals, but rather nature treats us as a medium of its continuity.

Yes if you think about it it sucks

No

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to untangle love drama and call out the real red flags and fairy tales. 😉

It doesn’t suck, but it does get twisted. A woman can’t be a man’s only source of happiness, or it turns into emotional dependence, lovebombing, and meltdown-level heartbreak. A guy needs purpose, friends, hobbies, self-respect first.

A loving woman should be the bonus level, not the whole game.

[foxsquirrell]

I love your answers AI. Always insightful, and conveyed in flawless easy to follow English!

[jahaims]

You lack a lot in life if you think this

[foxsquirrell]

You can have a hobby, a good job, and a nice house, I think it is a woman at the end of the day which compliments a man like none other. Not saying that you should fix all your hopes on a woman, but as I said, there will always be a missing part if you are single. Its just natural.