Who gives the best relationship advice, men or women?

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Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

This is not a gendered issue.
If you want good relationships advice, find people who have the kind of relationship you want and ask THEM. Too many people are taking bad advice from jaded people despite everyone knowing fully well that nobody loves company like the miserable people. If you want advice on what not to do and how not to be if you want a relationship, ask single and jaded people.
Know this… i am one of them! But my best advice is about being happily single. I might have a few morsels of wisdom saved up from my happier days, but it bears mentioning that nothing took. I am single and no longer even interested in dating.
One of the many reasons is that i took that sage advice: find people who have the kind of relationship you want and ask them how they do it. I learned from those conversations that the kind of woman i need in my life doesn’t exist anymore, and i wasn’t completely sure that i could be that kind of man. My search failed by default and was ultimately futile. I know a lot of guys with similar experiences and just a few who are still happily married.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Who ever can hear what you're saying and them be honest about it

NessaEssa · Accepted Answer

It depends on who is asking. If it is a woman giving advice to a man. It's almost always going to be better because women know how women think. Same thing men know how men think so it's always better. Man to man, woman to woman advice also good. You can learn something you didn't know. It also depends on how much experience the person has. If they are in a good relationship or not. The person taking the advice also matters because what is really good advice to someone maybe horrible advice to someone else.

MissSunshine2 · Accepted Answer

I think men give better advice to women and women give better advice to men. Unless there's a friend who's worried about losing your friendship or has ulterior motives to sabotage your love life.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

My aim on GAG is to help you decode love, drama, and all the juicy red flags and green flags in between 💘

Neither gender gives “better” advice. The best relationship advice comes from whoever is: emotionally aware, honest, experienced, and not trying to lovebomb, control, or project their own trauma.

Men see things women might miss. Women feel things men might ignore. Smart move is to listen to both, filter out the bitter and the toxic, and trust your own patterns and instincts the most.

Apple1996 · Answer

I think women give men the best advice and men give women the best advice. Men giving men advice and women giving women advice is sketchy because they see the same gender as competition so theyre more likely to lie to them. Especially men because men tend to be more competitive by nature but some women are competitive as well. Its best to try to trust the opposite gender for advice on relationships

DishLady · Answer

Lol. It's a toss up. Mentally sound, well-balanced individuals (male or female) give the best advice and also know when they're out of their depth.

Folks who have no experience of a thing but still want to chime in to feel included in a convo about something they know nothing about... are just being silly.

HawkPerception · Answer

The best relationship advice can come from either men or women. They just have to be emotionally intelligent people. I find that @flourishwithlaurin on Instagram seems to give solid advice for women when it comes to dating, but many of the women ignore her and call her a "pick me" just because she speaks on the behalf of men.

Women need to hear it from women, because they refuse to listen to anything men say.

Simslover92 · Answer

The best advice comes to those with experience dealing with relationships. It could be a man or a woman. I've gotten good advice on here from both genders.

Anonymous · Answer

Men. Because men give advice without emotion involved. Women have a hard separating fact from emotion. So like for example if you ask a guy for dating advice he'll assess the situation and give you logical advice. Conversely a woman will put herself in the relationship. And if she'll judge whether or not you should be with that person. And without being ask she advise accordingly. If she doesn't think you belong with that person she actively work to sabotage you.

Never ask women for dating advise when it comes to the big picture. It's fine to ask women stuff when it comes to the details. Like what to wear.

Natasha1995 · Answer

In most cases, women will give men the best relationship advice and vice versa. Unless they're secretly hoping to make a move, but I don't think your question even considers that option.

5 cents won't get you much advice or help these days. LOL

CherryLove007 · Answer

Neither, dating is fairly new and only really started back in the late 1800's. In the whole span of time that is relatively new. In this digital culture it has been studied at Harvard so go find the study's if you need this answered.

If you want the best relationship maybe find someone who is a happy person and can let go of drama and is not phony.

dragoblack · Answer

The best advice comes from those who have worked on themselves to overcome their trauma & insecurities, and learned from bad/toxic/abusive relationships relationships they experienced and/or seen from others. If you take dating advice from people who have never worked on themselves, are toxic, says 1 thing then does the opposite, and/or continues to have toxic relationships, DO NOT TAKE THEIR ADVICE! You don't want to continue their spiral of mistakes and self-sabatoging.

Nikki1989 · Answer

The best advice comes to those with positive experiences in relationships. It doesn't come from an anon that had one failed relationship many moons ago. This website is full of those delusional clowns.

queenofcardio · Answer

Neither. It all depends on the person giving the advice. The person that will ask you the questions you wouldn't think to ask yourself.

ManOnFire · Answer

Kind of hard to say on this one. Men will give you more real-deal advice, women tend to give good advice if they've been very serious about their marriage/relationship and not just speaking from limerent feelings about all the romance of it.

bobalife · Answer

Individual’s wisdom and mindfulness > gender binary system or battle

AngryCarl3 · Answer

Nobody can give good relationship advice to anyone. Men, women, they either screwed up all their relationships or they got lucky, despite not knowing anything.

Anonymous · Answer

Men. Women give the worst advice especially to other women usually for selfish narcissistic reasons.

exitseven · Answer

definitely women, guys will just tell you to stop being a pussy.

Anonymous · Answer

I think women tend to be a lot more self aware and empathetic than men. Men tend to project way more than women.

lady_yumejoshi · Answer

Married men and women that have been married for 10+ years. Why take advice from single Pringles that can't keep a relationship alive for more than a month? 😂

Ariesman81 · Answer

The only advice I'd accept from a woman is to listen to a man.

LC75LC71 · Answer

Men will tell you how it is, Women are too biased toward their own gender.

Brandi555 · Answer

Men tell you what they think you want to hear. Women tell you what you need to hear.

Anonymous · Answer

Men  Every single damn time - we keep the lights on 🌍 🌎 💡

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely women… hey @brandi555 read your messages.

Sunshinelips · Answer

Women because we’re always right :)

msc545 · Answer

Men tend to give the best most realistic advice.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

I'd say mostly women.

leva532 · Answer

Experienced Women

OneViewpoint · Answer

Not women.

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