926 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I know you asked for one but I have more than few based on my experiences in relationships.
1. Don't keep waiting for your partner to change their ways because they wouldn't.
If they felt their actions or behaviour were wrong and wanted to change they would have done that long before they even started dating you. So, you're wasting your time and waiting to be only more and more disappointed and fed up if you continue to stay.
2. Never go to bed angry.
Because it will eventually create and build resentment. So, talk things out. Apologise or reach to a compromise if you have to. There's nothing better than the feeling of coming back to a peaceful home and getting a warm embrace from happy, loving partner.
3. Everyone argue every now and then but be very careful about things you say when you're mad at your partner.
Never cross the line where your partner will end up feeling disrespected or they're being accused of something because that can damage your relationship.
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Asker11 moIt seems like you've been preparing for this question, you knew exactly what to say, you've either have learned through time with past relationships or you are that single friend that always has the best advice for some unexplainable reason š
m 11 mo@ChicoFromThe305 That single friend comment made me laugh out loud like a maniac š¤£
I made the #1 mistake. I waited and kept giving chances over and over after I was told that he'd change
About #2... I didn't make that mistake but my partners did
Regarding #3- I made that mistake in friendship when I was in a really bad place in life years ago. I regret it to this day, so I make sure I take deep breaths when I am mad.
But I never made that mistake in a relationship but yeah, I was on the receiving end in relationships. I forgave them but I was never able to forget their words eventually made me want to leave.
I've learnt from my mistakes and other people's mistakes too. So, now that I'm older and maybe wiser. I shall pass on my wisdom like a good sensei š¤£
Asker11 moSounds like you are quite when it comes to relationships, I guess the hardest part is someone that's willing to put the same efforts as you in general, all these things included, yea you are like a dating sensei, I guess that makes me the sapling, or the pupil, you've probably got your own dojo and the punching dummies are designed to look like a bunch of douchebags lol
m 11 moLol! Nothing like that
I've been in very few relationships and I finally started dating when I was 22/23. I thought okay, now maybe I'm ready. I mean, I'm smart enough to know what I want in a person, how to make room for a partner and handle relationship problems and all, lol... But I realised much later that I was way too naive in my 20s and was a hopeful romantic who believed in seeing only the good in people. I was trusted too much, gave my best and was too forgiving which did result in experiencing heartbreaks but to be honest, I don't really hate my exes. I stopped feeling anger or hurt once I completely cut them out of my life and when they appeared out of nowhere after a while. I talked politely, asked them how they're doing, wished them well but declined to give it another try. Neither did I want to be friends with them. I just believe that I was healed but there's no need to be in touch as they were in my life for a reason and that our purpose in each other's lives is done. I am just at peace.
Asker11 moSounds like you've got enough experience to become a sensei, and you seem to have learned from every experience, that's good, although you said after cutting them off when they came back you were polite, does this mean you went all potty mouth before š
Asker11 moOh I thought you got verbally creative with your emotional rants, which would seem like a balance since you come off as all nice and kind and how cotton candy would be if it was human, besides you said you had a lot of brothers and stuff, kinda pointed to potty mouth behavior but I guess long rants and lectures is a balance that suits you best lol
m 11 moCotton candy... had me rolling š¤£
Okay, now I get it why you'd think that but hey, I'm not all that nice and kind anymore. I do say f this, f that since the last couple of years, just not to human. And you're right, I do have more than few brothers. 3 older brother, the only kind of effect they had on me was me being drawn to sports, playing videogames, roasting each other and I'm also very good at imitating (voice) many people including middle age, old men... lol
Asker11 moYep you are a different breed of cotton candy, that's actually insane tho, you f this and that is enough to be considered potty mouth but I guess this and that is better than them or those š
Asker11 moBlowing up is a big word for what's going on but sure thing š
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m 11 moCalling bullshit on communication, not because it's a wrong advice, but because it's a misconceived, oversimplified advice. Communication will fail, when we don't find someone approaching communication in a similar way. Because we use personal and intricate dictionaries all the time when we communicate, the simplest notions embedded into a simple word may resonate completely differently, in someone else's head. Language is deceitful. As a consequence, we certainly have deceptive conversations without even knowing it. Because it's very tempting to think of a word as something conveying a universal significance.
Call dogshit on commitment, for the very same reasons stated above, we don't mean, by default, the same thing with commitment. Because this word can be used genuinely, it can be weaponized, it can be misconstrued and it can be misunderstood unless we share exactly what commitment is for us, personally.
Calling goatshit on compromise, because this notion also can have terrible results. I don't believe in compromise, by default, because they can backfire within when we're making use of certain compromises, when we know, deep inside, that we're making them for the wrong reasons. To obtain something in exchange for something sacrificed. That may create a massive, dormant, unbalance between what we want and what we have let go.
Thanks for reading The Tree S's... Shit...Shit...Shit 💩
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Now I have to Led Zeppelin, before the next nervous breakdown
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I really think thereās nothing wrong with same communication because itās true if youāre doing something, your partner doesnāt like how you gonna know unless they communicate that with you youāre not a mind reader you could be thinking everythingās fine because they arenāt saying anything. Thatās what I tell my boyfriend Iām glad we have hard conversations. Iām glad you let me know what Iām doing something that bothers you because if not, Iām not gonna know that it bothers you and youāre gonna get angry cause Iām not changing, but itās because I donāt know thatand I also try to take it into consideration that not everybody knows or is good at reading body language to know so itās better just to verbalize. Hey I donāt like when you feel this way I donāt like when you act this way or do this or that Iād rather them be honest with me then not say anything and lead me to think everythingās fine when itās not.
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Yep there is soooo much to elaborate and explain, but for this to work, it takes 2 very specific mindset connected on language the same way. Skilled enough, both. To handle intricacy of language.
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11 moBest advice for almost every situation...
Always be willing to compromise.
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Asker11 moI see š¤
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11 moBe present. Try not to focus so much on what will happen in the relationship or what has already come to pass. You can't go back and you can't fast forward. It's ok to make plans for your future but try not to let those plans consume you. Be in the present moment with your partner.
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Asker11 moInteresting information š¤
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From experience. Sort of the demise of my last relationship. Being too caught up on the future.
Asker11 moOof.
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Ah, giving relationship advice is my jam, babe! My aim is to sprinkle some love wisdom whenever I can. Here's a golden nugget for you: communication is key! Whether you're dealing with lovebombing or trying to avoid ghosting, open and honest chats can save the day! Trust, respect, and a sprinkle of humor keep the love spark alive. Remember, red flags aren't decorative. Keep it spicy and stay genuine! 😊ā¤ļø
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Asker11 moNot you Megatron
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1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. It's the beginning of the End the first time someone tells a lie
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Asker11 moOof.
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11 mo100% open, honest and safe communication from the beginning.
Without that, every relationship fails.10 Reply - 9.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
u 11 moNEVER stay in a relationship hoping that your partner will change!
10 Reply 2.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Donāt start what you canāt finish.
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Asker11 moIsn't that basically what every failed relationship is? š
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Yeah so thatās my best advice.
Folks get involved bc of the wrong motivations ā¦
Heās hotā¦
Sheās hotā¦
Heās hornyā¦
Sheās hornyā¦
Heās sweet and sheās pushyā¦
Sheās sweet and heās machoā¦
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No one looks at the long term⦠WHY are you GOOD for each other? It has to be about about way more than just libido and superficial appreciation.
You need to know wtf you want, work on yourself to deserve it, and go get it.
A better example: Someone wants to QB for the Ravens⦠but never picked up a football in their lives⦠shouldnāt be drafted no matter HOW much he claims to like football. š«Øš«Øš«Ø
Or the person who orders pasta bolognese but wants it vegan and gluten free⦠ššš
Donāt start what you canāt finish.
Asker11 moInteresting observation missy, very valid point š¤
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11 moCommunicate and compromise.
10 Reply āTo me known is to be lovedā is my moto literally which seems obvious but I think itās rlly overlooked and done at a surface level⦠try to know, KNOW them, donāt rush anything just be present and get to know the smallest things about them, be curious about them (it shows you care), ask them questionsā¦. sometimes all it takes is to be a good listener and it improves communication to next level also which is why people have so many communication issues in relationships itās bc they simply donāt listen, they want to be argumentative or just arenāt present to the fullest⦠and thatās a skill to learn in my opinion. And that can go for more than just romantic relationships
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Asker11 moInteresting observation, quite the useful information indeed, it's true people shouldn't jump into relationships without getting to know a person well š¤
This is my best relationship advice, I don't want you let a good thing slip away. You know I don't like watching anybody make the same mistakes I made.
A nice girl won't tell you what to do, she's a nice girl, and she's always there for you, I'm sure you think you've got it under control, you don't want somebody telling you the way to stay in someone's soul.
You'll never let her go, but that's just the kind of thing she ought to know. Tell her about it, tell her all your crazy dreams, let her know you need her, let her know how much she means.
It's not automatically a certain guarantee, to insure yourself, you've got to provide communication constantly. When you love someone, you're always insecure, and there's only one way, to reassure. Let her know how much you care, when she can't be with you, tell her you wish you were there. Every day before you leave, pay her some attention, give her something to believe.
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Asker11 moOkay so the basics stuff youd find from a normal Google search š¤£
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@ChicoFromThe305
This is wholly and solely what has always worked in our relationship/marriage.
Asker11 moWell that's good, it's how it should be, thanks for sharing Emma ššš¼
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You're most very welcome indeed @ChicoFromThe305
Please do take care, stay safe and have a nice day.
Asker11 moThanks, Emma, likewise š¬ šÆ
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I can get behind this. Itās so true. We donāt have all three of these a lot of times as a society. We wonder why our relationship fail itās about communicating being willing to give, but also take now one partner shouldnāt be all doing all the while the other just takes
11 moCommunicate donāt go to bed angry because you just wake up with the issues still there so itās better to resolve it and if you need to step away for a few minutes to cool down so you donāt say stuff youāre gonna regret and canāt take back because if you really care about that person youāre gonna fight for your relationship and try not to let little things become big things so itās better to communicate it and face it head on in that moment instead of pushing it aside and ignoring it
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11 moI totally agree with people who say commitment and communication, My husband and I try not to compromise bc then we both kind of lose equally. We try to get to a place together where we both feel we have won. But I would say the most important thing is to each love the other person more than you love yourself.
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u 11 moAs rupaul says.. if you canāt love yourself, then how the hell you gonna love somebody else? Donāt jump from relationship to relationship out of fear of being alone. Really take time to care for yourself and find a partner who cares for you and treats you well, donāt just settle for anyone with a heartbeat. Life is hard enough, you should find someone who eases the burden.
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11 mothe bigger the forehead...
the bigger the heart
so true so true 13 Reply
Asker11 moIs that what you came up with for your five head momo šš
- 11 mo
spoken like someone who doesn't have a big heart...
you small foreheader? idkk what i'd call you lol
Asker11 mo*taps your forehead* unfortunately there's nothing to call me š
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11 moDo not compare your relationship with others especially with what you see on social media. If you go through a rough patch do not run to your friends to tell them what's going on, outside opinions can ruin a good relationship. Do not rush into anything, sometimes we're so high in love we do things without thinking e. g. proposing too soon, just because you realize on the first date you want to marry her doesn't mean you have to marry her within six months.
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11 moNever be with anyone from the upper class unless you are upper class. My father's side is all messed up because my middle grandfather married my upper class grandmother. Her father hated my grandfather because he was in the military. That's it. He did nothing wrong. They are assholes. So my dad is kicked out and so am I. They threw a party when my grandfather died in 'Nam. They were happy he was dead. I'm treated as nothing more than a punching bag. They all want me dead and have tried to kill me several times. NEVER get involved with rich people unless you are rich. They will destroy your life.
00 ReplyDon't settle. It's better to be single, then to be in a relationship with someone you aren't into
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Asker11 moYou negative Nancy š
Asker11 moI know I just like bullying you cause you bully me š
495 opinions shared on Relationships topic. A relationship is fundamentally a co-operative act. It isn't one person being "in charge" and it certainly isn't one side unilaterally owning the other. People getting into relationships to "have" a partner are already setting themselves up for failure.
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11 moyou cannot love someone else until you can love yourself and stand on your own.
2. sex is best saved for after marrige otherwise it leads to heartbreak and regret
3. you should date 2 years before marriage at the least and no more than 4
4. sometimes improveing oneself leads to the best relationships you can find
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11 moIf you want a relationship to last then donāt badger your partner ( meaning take it easy )
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Asker11 moWhat does that mean
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It means take it easy on your partner
Like donāt nag or aggravate them
Keep it simple
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11 moExcitement is a wonderful thing. For a little while.
Expect the giddy excitement to fade. Itās not a bad thing. Just donāt stop pursuing each other10 Reply
11 moCommunication and respect for each other's feelings is key. When it's one sided, the relationship is in trouble
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11 moIf your partner is physically, emotionally, verbally, and/or mentally abusive, don't keep going back to them. Find someone to date who you can be like best friends with.
A relationship should be supportive and feel like you can talk about anything.
Stop jumping into relationships, just because the sex is good. Almost all relationships from that are always toxic, especially when the sex gets boring.00 Reply
11 moBe with someone who has great sense of humor. They keep you up on your toys.
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Asker11 moWhat toys? You mean humor?
11 moMuch communication, especially when you think that' some information is not necessary but obvious. Men need besides communication also actions. For example caressing his head when he was nice or pushing him when he did stupid things.
10 ReplyBE RELIABLEā¦.. she will give you all the pussy all year long if she can count on you!!
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11 moThe most important relationship you will EVER have is the one with yourself. Get to know that person DEEPLY & THOROUGHLY.
After that, others are manageable00 Reply - 570 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
11 moJust get with somebody you like physically and mentally, shares your core values, and can be a strength to your weaknesses..
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11 moUnderstand body language.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/SBOtj1RmaUE10 Reply
Anonymous(25-29)11 moWomen remember C. R. E. A. M
Men just avoid it safer these days10 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)11 moI literary have no idea, I've never been in a relationship.
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11 moThey shoud be your best friend!!
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Asker11 moInteresting advice š¤
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@ChicoFromThe305 disagree?
Asker11 moNot really no
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11 moDo not put up with a toxic partner. Life is too short to deal with such nonsense.
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11 moVery simple " Just stay honest with each other"
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Yess
Never trust them. Try and stay single.
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Anonymous(25-29)11 moStay single.
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Opinion Owner11 mo@LordOfSubmission how about you keep your š¤sized dick to yourself
11 moStay home read a book
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11 moDON'T DATE FAT OR SMALL-BOOB BROADS !!!
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11 moGood food, wine, and lots of sex
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11 moDon't marry an American woman
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11 moThere is none
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