What is your best relationship advice?

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Or just any relationship advice, let's see who our here knows shit 😂

Maybe_Maybe_not · Accepted Answer

Calling bullshit on communication , not because it's a wrong advice, but because it's a misconceived, oversimplified advice. Communication will fail, when we don't find someone approaching communication in a similar way. Because we use personal and intricate dictionaries all the time when we communicate, the simplest notions embedded into a simple word may resonate completely differently, in someone else's head.  Language is deceitful . As a consequence, we certainly have deceptive conversations without even knowing it. Because it's very tempting to think of a word as something conveying a universal significance. Call dogshit on commitment , for the very same reasons stated above, we don't mean, by default, the same thing with commitment. Because this word can be used genuinely, it can be weaponized, it can be misconstrued and it can be misunderstood  unless we share exactly what commitment is for us, personally .  Calling goatshit on compromise , because this notion also can have terrible results. I don't believe in compromise, by default, because they can backfire within when we're making use of  certain compromises , when we know, deep inside, that we're making them for the wrong reasons. To obtain something in exchange for something sacrificed. That may create a massive, dormant, unbalance between what we want and what we have let go. Thanks for reading  The Tree S's ...  S hit... S hit... S hit 💩

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Best advice for almost every situation... Always be willing to compromise.

Genie23 · Accepted Answer

I know you asked for one but I have more than few based on my experiences in relationships.

1. Don't keep waiting for your partner to change their ways because they wouldn't.

If they felt their actions or behaviour were wrong and wanted to change they would have done that long before they even started dating you. So, you're wasting your time and waiting to be only more and more disappointed and fed up if you continue to stay.

2. Never go to bed angry.

Because it will eventually create and build resentment. So, talk things out. Apologise or reach to a compromise if you have to. There's nothing better than the feeling of coming back to a peaceful home and getting a warm embrace from happy, loving partner.

3. Everyone argue every now and then but be very careful about things you say when you're mad at your partner.

Never cross the line where your partner will end up feeling disrespected or they're being accused of something because that can damage your relationship.

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

Be present. Try not to focus so much on what will happen in the relationship or what has already come to pass. You can't go back and you can't fast forward. It's ok to make plans for your future but try not to let those plans consume you. Be in the present moment with your partner.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Ah, giving relationship advice is my jam, babe! My aim is to sprinkle some love wisdom whenever I can. Here's a golden nugget for you: communication is key! Whether you're dealing with lovebombing or trying to avoid ghosting, open and honest chats can save the day! Trust, respect, and a sprinkle of humor keep the love spark alive. Remember, red flags aren't decorative. Keep it spicy and stay genuine! 😊❤️

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ohsheeT · Answer

It's the beginning of the End the first time someone tells a lie

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

100% open, honest and safe communication from the beginning. Without that, every relationship fails.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

NEVER stay in a relationship hoping that your partner will change!

DishLady · Answer

Don’t start what you can’t finish.

princeofromance · Answer

Communicate and compromise.

lyrem04 · Answer

“To me known is to be loved” is my moto literally which seems obvious but I think it’s rlly overlooked and done at a surface level… try to know, KNOW them, don’t rush anything just be present and get to know the smallest things about them, be curious about them (it shows you care), ask them questions…. sometimes all it takes is to be a good listener and it improves communication to next level also which is why people have so many communication issues in relationships it’s bc they simply don’t listen, they want to be argumentative or just aren’t present to the fullest… and that’s a skill to learn in my opinion. And that can go for more than just romantic relationships

Sunrising · Answer

This is my best relationship advice, I don't want you let a good thing slip away. You know I don't like watching anybody make the same mistakes I made.

A nice girl won't tell you what to do, she's a nice girl, and she's always there for you, I'm sure you think you've got it under control, you don't want somebody telling you the way to stay in someone's soul.

You'll never let her go, but that's just the kind of thing she ought to know. Tell her about it, tell her all your crazy dreams, let her know you need her, let her know how much she means.

It's not automatically a certain guarantee, to insure yourself, you've got to provide communication constantly. When you love someone, you're always insecure, and there's only one way, to reassure. Let her know how much you care, when she can't be with you, tell her you wish you were there. Every day before you leave, pay her some attention, give her something to believe.

EmmaMary · Answer

@chicofromthe305  The Three C's ... C ommunication... C ommitment... C ompromise.

Texasgal95 · Answer

Communicate don’t go to bed angry because you just wake up with the issues still there so it’s better to resolve it and if you need to step away for a few minutes to cool down so you don’t say stuff you’re gonna regret and can’t take back because if you really care about that person you’re gonna fight for your relationship and try not to let little things become big things so it’s better to communicate it and face it head on in that moment instead of pushing it aside and ignoring it

Caroline91 · Answer

I totally agree with people who say commitment and communication, My husband and I try not to compromise bc then we both kind of lose equally. We try to get to a place together where we both feel we have won. But I would say the most important thing is to each love the other person more than you love yourself.

petitedollbabee · Answer

As rupaul says.. if you can’t love yourself, then how the hell you gonna love somebody else? Don’t jump from relationship to relationship out of fear of being alone. Really take time to care for yourself and find a partner who cares for you and treats you well, don’t just settle for anyone with a heartbeat. Life is hard enough, you should find someone who eases the burden.

MemeSupreme · Answer

the bigger the forehead...  the bigger the heart so true so true

beenherebefore · Answer

Do not compare your relationship with others especially with what you see on social media. If you go through a rough patch do not run to your friends to tell them what's going on, outside opinions can ruin a good relationship. Do not rush into anything, sometimes we're so high in love we do things without thinking e. g. proposing too soon, just because you realize on the first date you want to marry her doesn't mean you have to marry her within six months.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Never be with anyone from the upper class unless you are upper class. My father's side is all messed up because my middle grandfather married my upper class grandmother. Her father hated my grandfather because he was in the military. That's it. He did nothing wrong. They are assholes. So my dad is kicked out and so am I. They threw a party when my grandfather died in 'Nam. They were happy he was dead. I'm treated as nothing more than a punching bag. They all want me dead and have tried to kill me several times. NEVER get involved with rich people unless you are rich. They will destroy your life.

Miah06 · Answer

Don't settle. It's better to be single, then to be in a relationship with someone you aren't into

SotiCoto · Answer

A relationship is fundamentally a co-operative act. It isn't one person being "in charge" and it certainly isn't one side unilaterally owning the other. People getting into relationships to "have" a partner are already setting themselves up for failure.
Understanding and respecting the other as an individual should always come first... and the "relationship" as a formal state of co-operation after that.

overlord337645 · Answer

you cannot love someone else until you can love yourself and stand on your own.

2. sex is best saved for after marrige otherwise it leads to heartbreak and regret

3. you should date 2 years before marriage at the least and no more than 4

4. sometimes improveing oneself leads to the best relationships you can find

Booboolove69 · Answer

If you want a relationship to last then don’t badger your partner ( meaning take it easy )

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Excitement is a wonderful thing. For a little while.  Expect the giddy excitement to fade. It’s not a bad thing. Just don’t stop pursuing each other

Decemberbaby86 · Answer

Communication and respect for each other's feelings is key. When it's one sided, the relationship is in trouble

dragoblack · Answer

If your partner is physically, emotionally, verbally, and/or mentally abusive, don't keep going back to them. Find someone to date who you can be like best friends with.
A relationship should be supportive and feel like you can talk about anything.
Stop jumping into relationships, just because the sex is good. Almost all relationships from that are always toxic, especially when the sex gets boring.

Alexa1999_ · Answer

Be with someone who has great sense of humor. They keep you up on your toys.

standardguy · Answer

Much communication, especially when you think that' some information is not necessary but obvious. Men need besides communication also actions. For example caressing his head when he was nice or pushing him when he did stupid things.

virgo2267 · Answer

BE RELIABLE….. she will give you all the pussy all year long if she can count on you!!

DrPepper12 · Answer

The most important relationship you will EVER have is the one with yourself. Get to know that person DEEPLY & THOROUGHLY.  After that, others are manageable

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Just get with somebody you like physically and mentally, shares your core values, and can be a strength to your weaknesses..

robocop666 · Answer

Understand body language.

Anonymous · Answer

Women remember C. R. E. A. M Men just avoid it safer these days

Anonymous · Answer

I literary have no idea, I've never been in a relationship.

JordansGate · Answer

They shoud be your best friend!!

LiamJHayden · Answer

Do not put up with a toxic partner. Life is too short to deal with such nonsense.

katiesmuff · Answer

Very simple " Just stay honest with each other"

Jove79 · Answer

Never trust them. Try and stay single.

Anonymous · Answer

Stay single.

Blackcat1952 · Answer

Stay home read a book

EmmiL · Answer

Don't trust Internet forums

Bricealan · Answer

@chicofromthe305 "Don't" !!!

RavVid · Answer

None without a problem.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

DON'T DATE FAT OR SMALL-BOOB BROADS !!!

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Good food, wine, and lots of sex

Godihateyou · Answer

Don't marry an American woman

Dongie · Answer

Stay single.

blackeagle007 · Answer

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