Questions: Relationships

Last night he talked to me saying he could never be with someone like me again and called me mentally challenged when I’m not and called me a slut when not. I want to actually be serious and be a mom one day and many people that are decent said to me that I should be able to have kids one day and that I will be an amazing mother. He’s been with me for 6 years and is questioning my abilities and saying someone like me shouldn’t be a mother because I’m too mentally challenged to and won’t know how to take care of a kid which is not true. Is he right? He told me right in my face to get my tubes tied because I’m not right in the head and told me no one would never would want to be with me. This made me upset and haven’t spoken to him since. This isn’t true right and he’s an asshole and ignorant right?

She tells my brother that she has a gay friend that she went to the bar with him and he doesn’t hide the relationship to my brother but she’s not secretive with her phone and my brother knows that she has a gay friend that she goes out with and she is going away with him for a couple of days on vacation somewhere. The gay friend is a guy. You think this is suspicious to you? You think she has another boyfriend on the side and she’s lying about him being gay?