If your partner is loyal but makes you feel unwanted, is it still a bad relationship?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It really depends. Because maybe you're kind of deplorable.

Let me tell you, it's hard just to find people who are loyal in this world. So that's saying something in itself. But do you engender trust and project a safe place for him? Because if not you might have to work on that. If it's still not working or if you already do that then you might have to conclude you are not right fir eachother. 2 people can be great partners and still just not the right partners for eachother.

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe they just need a little alone time. My girlfriend seems to need it once in a while so, I have no problem giving it to her.

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah if a guy is loyal but makes you feel unwanted and alone, yes its not working.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you untangle messy heart stuff without gaslighting yourself, so let’s get into it 🫶

Yes, it can still be a bad relationship. Loyalty without affection, effort, or emotional intimacy feels like slow-burn rejection. Feeling unwanted chips away at self-esteem, makes you overthink, and turns love into roommate energy.

Bare minimum loyalty is not the prize. Feeling chosen, desired, and emotionally safe is.

[slatyb]

What does he do or say that makes you feel this way?

[jahaims]

You could feel unwanted because of your own issues regardless of what others do

[DishLady]

Yes.

[Nikki1989]

Does the Pope wear a funny hat?

[loveslongnails]

Does a bear shit in the forest?

[Anonymous]

Yes. Loyalty is just one factor.

[NathanDavis]

it is, yes

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[i_am_back]

Yes..

[wkhan_87]

Yes it's bad

[MasterKS]

yes indeed.