Do you think you should be loyal to someone you are not dating but isn't just a friend?

[Anonymous]

[kyleelyn199723]

I think showing loyalty to a man you are interested in gives you a better chance of him wanting to date you. And that goes for anything in life. The more loyal you are to something, the better outcome you will have. From my experiences, men do not like women that are fooling around with other men while dealing with them. My current boyfriend has asked me before if I was talking to other people while talking to him

[Asker]

But I feel like he talks to other girls too because he would be sharing other girl's posts on his Instagram and when I'd ask him he'll be like "it's not what you're thinking" or "I don't want them" he always has an excuse

[kyleelyn199723]

Maybe you should ask him what he wants. He is accepting what you are currently offering him.

[Blackcupcake]

Depends on what you want I guess, but I personally tend to focus on one guy only. If I’m interested then I lose interest for all other guys so I just end up being loyal.

[Adam1978]

I think you should be loyal to everyone you can so you create a win win scenario for everyone. That said don't be loyal to people who will screw you over if they win on it, such as employers, only exception is that if you just took the job you would need to fullfill it before leaving.

[Ghostykill3r]

Kind of? There's nothing wrong with talking to a couple guys at the same time, as long as they don't think you're exclusive, I would say that it's "better" to just talk to one guy at a time as it shows more interest, but that might just be me.

[Anonymous]

Like, a friends with benefits?
No, if you aren't in a committed relationship, then you aren't bound by any limitations to that person

[Anonymous]

Up to you, if you eventually want a commitment then I’d say stay loyal if not then just do whatever you want.

[Anonymous]

It is not a must. However, if you aren't loyal, it would certainly lower your chances