Has God given you ideas about your life?

I believe God wants me to start looking for a man soon, I could not date before because I was not biblically observant: I held grudges, was full of ego, too lazy to care about others, got angry at my abusive parents, lacked sympathy for people and judged those who sinned against God and I based my self worth of people and not on God, so God kept me single.
Has God given you ideas about your life?
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