Have you ever felt that you are disliked for your mere existence?

[Anonymous]

I feel that way and I believe that my life experiences logically point that being a fact.

[mstbooblover]

That's a question very difficult to answer objectively. Setting aside the plain fact that my parents really did not like me for some obscure reasons, in daily life I don't think people in general don't like me because of merely existing.

We are all as we are, and it is impossible to please everyone. Thus, when someone doesn't like me, well, I don't give a damn anymore since decennia, which does not prevent me from taking notice and trying to understand silently the nature of the involved people.

[aceleon]

sometimes when i catch people looking at me for no reason, like what the f why are you even looking at me what did i do?

[RandomGirl42]

Look at your own words. It's now a fact because you believed it. You proved it to yourself, no one else. I believe we are all responsible for our own life experience.

"You create your own reality by consciously managing your vibration through your thoughts and emotions, which aligns with the Law of Attraction to bring corresponding experiences into your life."

There is not one shred of evidence to disprove law of attraction and I believe in everything until it is disproved.

[Asker]

I have a book that disproves the law of attraction. Get this one:
www.amazon.com/.../0310368863

Happy Lies: How a Movement You (Probably) Never Heard Of Shaped Our Self-Obsessed World

[RandomGirl42]

lol, ok. I have replied to a few other of your questions as well but since you seem happy to keep arguing for your own limitations have fun wallowing in your own self-pity.

We have a saying in these parts,
You should never try to teach a pig to sing
It wastes your time and annoys the pig

Thank you. Have a good day. Or not. It's all your choice. 😊

[Asker]

LOL 🐷

[Sevenpointfive]

yes. my father is not a kind person to his family.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Oh, please. I'm a black man. We've been hated save for our labour since we were brought to Amerikkka in 1619 !!!

[Shiprex]

More often liked for irrational reasons

[Asker]

I feel the same way only in the opposite way.

[Shiprex]

That's unfortunate though it's probably self esteem rather than actual dislike. Most people dgaf either way unless you are of value to them right now

[Asker]

When I was a kid I tried to as kind as I could be, and yet other boys wanted to beat me up. As I moved up in school, that got worse and worse. It turned into bullying cause I was "different". I thought after I got out of school things would improve. Finally at a Church I made some friends but they were very shallow friends, and as soon as the Church family fell apart, they broke contact with me, as though it was my fault. It wasn't. Next I cleaned a school for 22 years, where most people ignored me, and some looked down at me, and some were down right rude to me. To make things worse, my own boss sided with them. I continued to attend Churches, but even those people ignored me. It didn't matter if I tried to be friendly or not, but they had no interest. Now days the struggle continues. That is why I feel that my self assessment is accurate.

[Shiprex]

It's other's ego that makes them be cruel. They take advantage of folk without reciprocation or thanks. People aren't all tgat way. A new place or country might brighten things for you

[Asker]

@shiprex I am moving but it is not far from here. I hope that housing community I'm going too will be better. But I'm not getting my hopes up. Even my Dad feels that this is the direction that people are going in.

[Shiprex]

Goid luck with this i moved country recently and am still finding out

[Asker]

@shiprex I think culture makes a big difference. Because people like to behave like each other, so that they fit in. For example bad people are in gangs to do bad things together. Rich people like to hang out with each other. I could go on, but you get my point. I think what happened to the local churches is that are filled with people who carry the same views on how to behave in society. Lots of Church goers don't even read the Bible, even though many say they believe it.

[Shiprex]

Churches aren't really ideal places for honourable people but there are few alternatives for young folk or any to meet socially. Gangs too are groups who share some bonds that can become harmful.
Id say sports, hobby and fitness groups are more likely to have better committed people in them

[RedInnocent69]

No, everyone who dislikes me has their reasons

[LiamJHayden]

By some people, yes. Universally, no.

[strateguy632]

you feel god hates you for existing?

[Rightonein]

Yes sometimes

[Cheerfull009]

I consider positive views