Search Results: confidence or insecurity

Why my ex hasn’t reached out yet for coffee?

My ex broke up with me 8 months ago. It wasn’t a messy breakup; he didn’t feel the ‘spark’ anymore, but there was no begging, crying or mean words even though I wanted us to stay together. I went straight to no contact,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

A Response To: “Why Short Girls Are The Best”

I am 4’11”. That’s pretty small 😂 especially for an adult. So I was totally ready to read the persons mytake about short girls, assuming she would be encouraging. But to my surprise, I did not feel encouraged at all and...

Ellie-V

Guru Age: 31

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Girls, I need some real and honest advice on confidence?

I know women like guys that are confident, it's what you're drawn to (we like it in you as well by the way, it goes both ways). I often feel this is an unfair and unrealistic "expectation", because we are no different...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girls, What are some ways I can boost my market value to women to be seen/thought of as more date worthy?

I dress as nice as possible, I find the nicest sexiest most masculine clothes that I like (Tie Dye, hoodies, button ups, etc. Making sure they all fit perfectly well) I show a lot of confidence when I talk to girls, I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

What's one insecurity that you feel has improved over the years?

I will put this under health and fitness as mental health is just as important as physical. Everybody has them. For myself ( as silly as it sounds ) is eating in front of people. I had developed a complex that being a...

ultimega

Guru Age: 36

Timely Advice - How To Actually Meet Men’s Desires

I was asked to this MyTake as a follow up to a previous one I had done about giving women what they want. That take was more of what men can do for the women in their life. This is what women can do for their man. A few...

Knighted2170

Yoda Age: 55

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Long distance couple. How do you deal with these insecurities?

Lately I have this feeling that I'm not able to meet my girlfriend's needs. Of course I'm in a long distance and I can't hold her hands to comfort her or take her to good place and have nice dinner whenever she had bad...

Rainbow12308

Xper 4 Age: 33

Do you believe that people must love themselves before they find love?

This is something I've been thinking about a lot. Obviously, everyone should have self-confidence and love themselves before they can find and believe someone who will. But doesn't everyone have some unresolved...

Prima_Dana

Xper 6 Age: 27

Family & Friends

Would you ever say publicly what your biggest insecurities are, or would you only tell them to a person you trust in confidence?

So I've come to realize that almost everyone has insecurities, regardless of how confident they may appear to be. My question is, think about what aspect of yourself you are the most insecure about. Would you ever admit...

Ally100percent

Xper 6 Age: 25

So I've come to realize that almost everyone has insecurities, regardless of how confident they may appear to be. My question is, think about what aspect of yourself you are the most

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What does it mean to be confident?

From what I understand (not from what I’ve been told) confident means -Never Shy -Loves being social -Never having any insecurities ever -alwasys in a good mood no matter what Is this confidence? If not what is it really?

Anonymous

(25-29)

What “Being Yourself” Really Means

Guys, we've all have heard that when it comes trying to impress, and catch the attention of a lady, that the best thing you can do is be yourself and not try and be someone you're not. This is %100 true. However, this...

thecd1979

Xper 7 Age: 47

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If you could eliminate one weakness or limitation in your life, what would it be?

Mine used to be fear caused by the insecurities I had. It controlled me and my life, it kept me from trying activities and doing new things because I worried too much about people judging me and rejection. At one...

Branwenn

Xper 5 Age: 44

Hey Kid, Want Some Helpful Life Tips?

Look! Another fantastic list of probably generic advice someone's going to enlighten us with again! Well hey I just felt like being a little inspirational today, so I thought I'd have some fun with my first my Take. I...

Haaps

Xper 6 Age: 36

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You're not brutally honest, you're arrogant and annoying.

To kick things off let's start with a cancerous meme. Also I swear to God G@G if you make this the thumbnail photo I will... Be annoyed and do nothing. Nice attitude we got here don't we? Ironically enough I'm going to...

SketchForger

Editor Age: 27

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How Do I Look?

Am I ugly? check my profile pic?

I know confidence is key and all that and I do come off as confident, but now that I have a way to get answers and remain somewhat anonymous I get to milk my insecurities haha

Anonymous

(18-24)

How to Build Your Confidence When You Lack It (From Someone Who's Had Theirs Destroyed)

I'm not sure if I am even qualified to give this advice. I used to be so confident in myself, at least I thought I was but one thing after another destroyed it. In high school, (and this isn't just some girl falsely...

nojokecarmichael

Yoda Age: 29

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What I Find Attractive In Women

I wasn't nominated, but that's okay, this seemed like a fun thing to do anyways, so hey, if you're reading it, cool! These are the things I think make a woman attractive! Physical Stuff: 1: Health/In shape This is...

Mornin23

Xper 5 Age: 26

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What I Find Attractive in a Woman

#whatifindattractivechallenge Having been nominated by @ChronicThinker, here is my list... Empathy This is personally the most critical personality trait of all, for me. I've noticed over the past year, that people who...

JimRSmith

Editor Age: 43

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