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So I was wondering if I'm the only one who dreams about a girl they like. Over the past 2 weeks or so, I've dreamt about her like 3 times. It's weird because even though I've known this girl since I was 10, I haven't seen her in like 3 years because she's 2 years older than me and she goes to a private school. And hey, I don't control this random stuff, so don't judge me haha. Does this craziness mean anything?

Dream 1: So I was at a high school or college with a cafeteria, and I was in me to buy some food. I remember I saw my crush working behind the counter in one of the lines (makes no sense because her family is rich), so I moved into that line. When I reached the counter, I remember feeling sad because she was taller than me (BS I'm 5'10). I walked up with a big grin and said "Hey I'll take these" She said "[My name], is that you?" I said "Yeah" and I chuckled a bit. She typed some stuff into the computer then looked up and grinned. "That'll be 100 billion dollars please" she said. I chuckled and said "It's worth it... I get to see you". She blushed and a group of girls in the line next to me went "Awww". Then she laughed and said "Are you trying to get free food from me?" I replied "Nah, I'm just trying to see your beautiful smile". She blushed again and the girls in the line smiled and went "Awww" again. At this point she took of her apron and walked out the side door of the building. When I walked up to her, she grinned and said "I'm quitting this job". I chuckled and asked "Really?", to which she laughed and replied "No, not really".

Dream 2: I was at some kind of gathering in a grass field with lots of people around, and I remember the sky was overcast. I was wearing a suit and tie, and I saw my crush standing there in this gorgeous dress. We talked for a little but I can't remember what either of us said, but I do remember seeing her mom there too. Her mom was sitting down but she looked like she was in pain so I got her some ice and my crush smiled.

Ok so I've been with my fiancée for 3 years, been engaged 3 months, we've had a few issues mainly over her insecurities towards my 4 year old daughters mother. (thinking I would get back with her) I've always reassured my fiancée that I love, care and support her however I have to see my ex once per week so I can collect my daughter.

Anyway my question is does my fiancée flirt with blokes in our workplace or am I paranoid?

1. My fiancée spends more time talking with men than with her own man in work, (she hardly chats to women)
2. My fiancée was invited to go for a drink by two men (men I work with) she accepted however when I asked her when are "we" going she replied with "oh you wasn't invited"
3. At work lunch break, I sat on my fiancées table with the same two men. My girl introduces me to "sue" (real name rik, they both have nick names for each other) but she stated "this is Sue.. but to you.. you call him Rik" at the same time she is chatting to the second bloke about how she wants a John Lennon portrait tattoo (she is had a crush on JL) the second bloke replied with "hey hun, just think when you get your JL tattoo you will have me on your arm" with a wink. (I asked my fiancée what this ment and she said"oh I think he looks Like John Lennon, he's a great guy, and he has awesome hair"
4. My fiancée and Rik talk about his and her relationship problems and get advice from each other, she is always speaking about Rik in and out of work.
5. Me and Fiancee didn't speak for two days, on 3rd evening she received a text reading (hey beautiful hows you tonight? Xxxx) at approximately 1am. She says she swapped phone numbers with a man in work, he had no friends, and they was mates, I told her mates don't text things like that. Her reply "I can't control what people do"
5. I've been told by a few people at work she likes the attention. (workplace is 90% males)

It's hurting my feelings and I've sat down an talked over n over, she doesn't change and calls me paranoid.