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You're apparently in a good relationship but suddenly you've realized there are major incompatibilities. Just love alone isn't enough. Which would be worse:

- Poor communication: You were both in the "falling in love" stage that you failed to see if they share your similar goals and values. Neither of you communicated what you wanted out of the relationship. You've just realized you share nothing in common, have arguments and there is too much drama.

- Getting lied to: You were honest about what you wanted out of the relationship, your goals, values, etc. They pretended to assimilate to your ways and lied so they wouldn't lose you. However, there comes a point they can't keep up with the lie and the truth eventually comes out. You're rightfully upset they pretended to be on your same page.

Can you just suddenly forget about them by busying yourself with enough other activities, or does it usually take falling in love with someone else that makes you forget about them?