Hello, how are you all?
I have a question ,
I have a nice new friend who has a cheerful personality and I love her very much, but her financial situation is difficult. She has a mother, a stepfather, and an older sister who studies. Her mother does not give her money and her stepfather is jealous of her because she studies outside the area and her aunt sends her money to complete her studies and gives her a small allowance. She lives in Türkiye and studies there.
I met her through my family because I was in Türkiye on vacation. We got to know each other and she asked me to show you about Turkey and we were talking, I am the type of person who loves visiting luxury restaurants and markets. Shr was surprised that it was so expensive. I told her I didn't care. We went to a fancy restaurant and the prices were too high for her. I told her that on me. We used to go eat every day. I went to Sephora and bought things that she only wished to be like me. I told her to study, graduate, and work. You buy everything you wish. Her question was strange.
A while ago she asked me for a sum of money, and I agreed because the sum was small for me, but Shahr was crying that her hair was falling out and she had no money to go to a doctor. I sent her a letter, but her requests were increasing day by day, and I do not know if she was taking advantage of my kindness, and I was saving my money in my Turkish account, so one day I come to Turkey. I used it and I was telling her about my money, which had such and such amount, and she was telling me her problems, but what she didn’t tell me was that she wanted to tell me a different way. It was my mistake to tell someone how much money I had. This is a big mistake and I regret it.
I love her so much, I don't want to lose her, but I don't like the way she wants my money in another way
I have a question ,
I have a nice new friend who has a cheerful personality and I love her very much, but her financial situation is difficult. She has a mother, a stepfather, and an older sister who studies. Her mother does not give her money and her stepfather is jealous of her because she studies outside the area and her aunt sends her money to complete her studies and gives her a small allowance. She lives in Türkiye and studies there.
I met her through my family because I was in Türkiye on vacation. We got to know each other and she asked me to show you about Turkey and we were talking, I am the type of person who loves visiting luxury restaurants and markets. Shr was surprised that it was so expensive. I told her I didn't care. We went to a fancy restaurant and the prices were too high for her. I told her that on me. We used to go eat every day. I went to Sephora and bought things that she only wished to be like me. I told her to study, graduate, and work. You buy everything you wish. Her question was strange.
A while ago she asked me for a sum of money, and I agreed because the sum was small for me, but Shahr was crying that her hair was falling out and she had no money to go to a doctor. I sent her a letter, but her requests were increasing day by day, and I do not know if she was taking advantage of my kindness, and I was saving my money in my Turkish account, so one day I come to Turkey. I used it and I was telling her about my money, which had such and such amount, and she was telling me her problems, but what she didn’t tell me was that she wanted to tell me a different way. It was my mistake to tell someone how much money I had. This is a big mistake and I regret it.
I love her so much, I don't want to lose her, but I don't like the way she wants my money in another way
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Well I agree you shouldn't have told her how much is in your account, you shouldn't tell anyone tbh, is this the same person as before? Keep in mind she's broke, I don't think she would be asking you for financial help if she wasn't broke although you should find a balance on what you help her with and what aren't priorities to do so, I think the issue here is you feeling the need to give her money Everytime, refuse at some point and see what happens
She keep asked me a lot so i will try say no :(
Yea but put an excuse, pick and choose, I'm sure you'll know which one can take a no
As you love her too much, then you must sacrifice money for her ,
Ask her