How to tell if your girl friend is more than a friend?

[Anonymous]

My best friend knows I’m Bi and that I have feelings for her. Not only do I have feelings, but I love her. She sometimes seems like she is flirting with me, but I can’t be positive. I asked her once if she has ever been interested in girls and she wouldn’t answer. I told her I’ll have to draw my own conclusions and still no reply. Is she in the closet or is she simply not into me other than friends. Why the secrecy?

[Laniavila]

I actually have a best friend that’s lesbian and she likes me and honestly, I dislike it because anything I do, she thinks I’m flirting with her and it gets on my nerves, im just trying to have a friend moment and she always ruins it by asking me if I like girls, I’m personally straight, and it just gets really awkward especially since my friend is a stud. I told her I’m not gay but she still likes me either way and it irritates me because she goes around asking prove if I’m gay even when I said im not.
Just don’t get a head of yourself, she’s probably still figuring her sexuality and that’s fine.

[Asker]

I have never asked her if she is… other than one time in a text. I never flirt with her or hit on her. And I never assume she’s flirting with me. I just notice sometimes it seems like she likes to get close…. Too close. So has me wondering if the feeling are mutual since she knows how I feel. Believe me I’m not making it it awkward or crossing any boundaries of any sort. Just fucking wondering.

[Asker]

Honestly Wow ! I’m kinda wondering why your friends with her cause that would be annoying! Also sounds like she really has Ulterior motives with you which would really piss me off because you just want to be friends and she should respect that.

[DavidRaul]

She didn't answer because she is curious. If she was straight, she would have told you that she's not interested in women, on your face. But still we can't draw conclusions