Help! I’m falling in love with an online situationship , what’s the best advice?

[Anonymous]

He’s acting like a guy who actually wants a real relationship. 😩 that’s why I’m concerned. My gut feeling tells me he’s into a deep serious relationship. 🥹 I have rejected other guys because you can literally tell when they just want sex nothing serious but he’s actually there for me looking for me I even confessed to him I was a mother once (never have I ever revealed that to someone because she passed away) he acts like a real boyfriend and even talked to my mom. 🥹 I’m very skeptical I don’t know why with this guy I feel different if I’ve always push the bad ones away from me even if they wanted something serious.

[DishLady]

Reading some of your additional responses as well as the description, this guy sounds odd. Best advice is to shut down whatever the heck you think you have going on with him. "Choking" and "Beating" are not words a good guy uses for any reason.

[Nirmroth]

Meet this guy first before you start thinking more serious. In person can be vastly different than over text. there's lots of subtle signs like body language etc that tell us more about a person than if you only communicate via text or video calls.

[scooogy]

Schroedinger's date: Meet someone in person, without knowing if it's this guy or someone else. Just to get over him.

[spartan55]

Have you even met this guy?

[Asker]

No. Trust me. I have experienced in this. Even guys who are like 5 minutes away cheat. This guy drinks and oyes all over me. The only thing I’m concerned it’s that he’s always joking about beating me up or choking me but he’s turns that joke in to the sexual part. He never talks about sex though it is vulgar just that when he says he’s gonna beat me justified himself saying he’s meaning the sexual part.

[spartan55]

I didn't say anything about cheating? So what are you talking about? You are falling in love with a guy who admits that he is sexually violent and will be sexually violent towards you. Is there something wrong with you? You are not being smart.