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Why do this? hey everyone 👋🤗 I am just looking for thoughts and opinions here if that is okay. Had this guy friend who I worked with, we would always somehow end up alone together but just chat or laugh, he always helped me with everything. On nights out it would always be just us left together, he would always say things that were specific about me like how I would react to things or the way I move. Whenever we were in a group of someone else would be talking he would always look towards me and catch my eye. We used to have our own little jokes and he would sit with his knee touching my knee not moving. He left work and at his leaving lunch I had written he was my og in the card when one of the guys asked him to make a speech he said my og and then gathered himself. People always assumed something was going on with us and I used to be mistaken for being his friend to give you an idea of how close we were. Am I stupid to think there was something there? Well he was messaging to see how I was doing lately and told me he had a girlfriend? Can I ask what you all think, was he just flirting with me for that long as a joke or to keep busy or something? I just want to understand.

Hey everyone 👋🤗 I am just looking for thoughts and opinions here if that is okay. Had this guy friend who I worked with, we would always somehow end up alone together but just chat or laugh, he always helped me with everything. On nights out it would always be just us left together, he would always say things that were specific about me like how I would react to things or the way I move. Whenever we were in a group of someone else would be talking he would always look towards me and catch my eye. We used to have our own little jokes and he would sit with his knee touching my knee not moving. He left work and at his leaving lunch I had written he was my og in the card when one of the guys asked him to make a speech he said my og and then gathered himself. People always assumed something was going on with us and I used to be mistaken for being his friend to give you an idea of how close we were. Am I stupid to think there was something there? Well he was messaging to see how I was doing lately and told me he had a girlfriend? Can I ask what you all think, was he just flirting with me for that long as a joke or to keep busy or something? I just want to understand. Have no intention of pursuing, just want to hear your thoughts 💭

A funny thing is going on in our friends group. This recently single, hot friend has apparently started dating several girls of the group at the same time. Many of the girls are now convinced that they are dating him, and the ones who slowly realize that he’s been doing that with other girls too are starting to get super jealous. Potential for ruined friendships is very high. His modus operandi is mostly to propose to a single girl to hang out with him, mostly for going dancing, and than drives them home … and (for now) nothing happened (no kisses etc).