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The situation is this. You have a guy, and a girl, they meet (BOTH ARE IN THEIR 20's), they date, they fall in love, they get engaged. The guy has a single father, the girl has a single mother. When they announce the engagement the parents meet. Eventually the parents start dating and fall in love, they get married in a court house ceremony no one was invited.. Now the two engaged children (used only in the offspring descriptor as both children are in their 20's) are now suddenly step siblings.

What is the correct action here.. Should they break it off in favor of the parents who selfishly screwed things up for them? Should the parents who selfishly got married, divorce? Should the two offspring continue with their plans to get married?

Personally i am of the mind set that the two kids should continue, what happened is no fault of their own, and the parents were indeed selfish.. Reasons are, its fully legal, there is nothing in my opinion morally wrong with it, and honestly fuck the parents for doing this.

Oh and legally in all of the 50 states, step siblings are legally allowed to marry because there is no blood relation.. It would be different if there were blood ties. Additionally i think i would feel differently if the the two grew up together, that's kind of nasty. I'm speaking only and specifically of this situation, nothing else.

The friendzone to me is when a woman plays dumb when she’s getting pursued from a guy she has no interest in. However she but can’t so no to the attention, favors, free meals, free counseling, etc. She doesn’t respect him and therefore doesn’t feel guilty about exploiting the setup.

This is NOT the same as asking to be “friends” after one or two dates. I don’t have a problem with that. Although the question itself can be unnerving, it still let’s the guy know where he stands. In that scenario it’s up to the guy to stay or leave.

This also sometimes happens vice versa with genders, but not nearly as often. I had to be honest with women I just wanted to be friends before).

I have been trying to hit the point that the real reason guys get angry about the friendzone isn’t about lack of sex, it’s about lack of respect. It’s about girl not seeing the guy as a real man so she feels comfortable assuming he’s okay with the friendzone (as I defined above).