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Fashion dictates that black is more formal that brown. I am not talking about "dress" bags though. I am talking about everyday I reach and go. Should I wear black to the office and brown otherwise. Should I always match my bags and shoes? Should it always depend on what I am wearing? I am just looking for a good "utility bag" because changing my bags out is not very much fun, but necessary sometimes. Should I wear this brown or black bag most of the time in the winter?

So I'm talking to 2 guys from a dating app.. READ ALL:

Man A: he was sending me hearts and saying my face lips are nice etc and he was kinda getting sexual so I said im a virgin and am waiting for marriage. He said he doesn't think he can wait. So I said well then lets cancel our date but you seam very nice so wish you all the best. Then now he text back and said he wants to meet and he will have to wait for me. Is he lying? Cause i not gonna change my mind its been 24 years I've said no so far I dont wanna waste my time or his.

Man B: Is older he is 9 years older than me. He hasent said anything sexual not evan sent heart. He wants to meet in town to walk around and look in fun shops/eat waffles. He has 2 cats he talk about a lot and he wants a family like me. He is very introverted which I like. I haven't told him im waiting cause he seams more ready to settle down.. I mean im 24 he is 33 and he wants kids so maybe he is serious or he just wanna have fun?

SERIOUS=Can wait until marriage/wants family etc basically settle down not trying to just have a fun fling.

I followed a cosplayer on Instagram. He’s basically mixed race. He’s a half New Zealand and Indonesian. He posted with these pronouns she/he/they. He can understand and speak English, Indonesian. I admired how he got a perfectly feminine look after that surgery. Should I ask him when he has gotten it and how the recovery is like? Although he changed his gender he still has that mixed race look which makes him a beautiful woman. I wish he didn’t go under the knife so I can have a chance with him. I have this feeling he’s a dreamy young man but it’s a bit of a waste but not entirely because he might get a boyfriend who’s accepting of him. As a huge fan of him is it appropriate or am I being a busybody?